I would really appreciate some feedback on this. My son sees his grandparents quite often and he loves to go out with them or visit them at their house (he's almost 20 months). My dad in particular ADORES him, and both my parents give him their undivided attention whenever he's with them. My problem is that a few times now when I have gone to pick him up from their place, he doesn't want to leave - he takes one look at me (when I arrive) and starts to whine and clings on to one of his grandparents. The worst time was a couple of weeks ago when my parents were babysitting him at my house. When I came home, I walked towards him (with a big smile) and said "hello darling!! how are you?" As soon as he saw me, he started to cry and ran after my mother and hung on to her leg... as if to say, 'get lost'!!! I found it so hurtful. It was almost like he knew that once I came home, his grandparents would leave and he didn't want that to happen. Either that or he just didn't want me around!! His reaction was really bad - he started to sob when my parents walked towards the door, and in the end I just had to tell them to leave because he was getting worse. It sounds awful but I felt really angry towards my son for a while for having that reaction towards me. We normally get on fine when it's just him and I at home together. I'm all for kids being able to see their grandparents and I'm glad he has a relationship with them, but I guess I'm starting to feel a bit threatened by it. My husband says if it continues to be a problem, I should cut down the amount of time he sees them. My question is, is this behaviour common? I just want to know whether it's normal for children to react this way or whether there might be another problem. Thanks...
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