DD is on her 4th day at preschool, 2 mornings a week. She also goes to a childminder, where she is very happy and secure.
Her first few drop-offs at preschool were fine. Yesterday I had to leave her screaming hysterically and fighting to get to me. They phoned to say she had settled OK after about half an hour. For the next few days, she was very clingy and unwilling to let me leave her - which she hasn't done since she was very much younger.
Their policy is very much 'Drop her and go'. Hey key worker takes her from me and holds her down cuddles her while I leave.
I know this is just one bad drop-off, and she's got a while to go before she settles.
In an ideal world, I would have stayed with her as long as it takes to get her settled, every time I dropped her off. (I know what works for her.) I thought I would try the school's way - it's soooo hard to know what to do.
I would like your views on the school's approach. They say this is all part of learning detachment and children never learn it's safe to detach otherwise. Is 'leave them even if they're screaming' a common approach? Any advice? Thank you.
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Advice please on leaving a 3yo screaming at preschool - your views on school's approach?
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OhGood · 11/05/2013 18:35
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