DS2 is 2 weeks old now..
Before he was born we couldnt completely decide on a name for him. We ended up with a shortlist of 3 names a couple of months before he was born and decided to keep the 3 names in mind and choose one when he was born depending on what suited him.
The shortlist was Leo, Noah or Dexter.
Leo was DH's contribution, Noah was my contribution and Dexter was liked by us both (but not as much as we each liked our own choices iyswim)
About a week before he was born the name Edward came into my head with Teddy as a shortened version. I mentioned it in passing to DH and he said 'its ok' but wasnt overly taken with it.
When DS was born I took one look at him and he was a Teddy. I just knew instantly that should be his name. I said so and DH was surprised (I think he had completely convinced himself that I would go with Leo in the end) but agreed on the spot and announced it to family etc straight away..
Since then I have realised that he probably only agreed so readily due to me having just been through the labour and wanting me to be happy etc and I really dont think he is keen on the name!
He calls DS Edward all the time and wont use Teddy or Ted at all, even though I call him Teddy and so do all my family/friends etc (they have taken their cue from me). DH's family have picked up on this now too and they all call him Edward as well. Obviously I cant and wont object seeing as Edward is his name!! and I do really like the name (or I wouldnt have called him it!!) but I do think it might be slightly confusing for both DS2 when he is older and for DS1 now who hears us both calling his brother different names! DS1 is 2years old and so not really old enough to explain it to.
I do feel slightly put out in a sense that DH really shouldnt have agreed immediately to it if he didnt like the name 'Teddy' and should have said something like 'lets think about it for a day or so' instead, which is more what I was expecting tbh. I feel a bit like he has agreed to the name now so he should properly embrace it!!
On the other hand I feel quite upset to think that he is unhappy with our childs name! i really want him to like it!
I havent brought it up with him. Dont really know what to say or what can be done. I dont want to change Teddy's name now. I love it and think it suits him 100%. I have no regrets myself about picking it.
Am wondering what the best thing I can do to get DH used to it is? or is just giving him some time the answer??
He did write love from Teddy in my mothers day card from the boys which made me cry lol, but so far thats the only time he has referred to him by his nickname...
Any ideas? Anyone been in a similar situation?? or am I making to big a thing out of it?? (new baby hormones maybe?? lol)
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MrsDandOllie · 06/03/2008 12:24
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