SIL has had anxiety issues since having two losses and since carried her newborn healthy baby to term, delivered by C-Section a week ago.
Since then she has:
- not left the house (saying she can’t move because of the c-section)
- wont allow any visitors other than the grandparents who have visited twice for very short time
- was furious the grandparents “didn’t help” (they cleaned the house, washed up and did a supermarket shop)
- was furious her DH (my DB) accidentally walked into the house with shoes on
- thinks her baby is “ugly”
- has not named the baby
No photos have been sent of the new baby apart from a pic announcing her birth. Upside is feeding is going well apparently.
Any clues tips or advice how to approach this? I obviously haven’t seen or spoken to her as she is avoiding everything. DB sounds like a wreck, really flat, no joy. Just keeps repeating “things are difficult”…