Hi all. I'm new to this community and after some advice/reassurances.
My girlfriend and I had a beautiful baby girl in May. The labour and birth were difficult. Girlfriend had kidney stones, SPD where she could barely move around. So she didn't enjoy the pregnancy much. We then had our 11lbs girl, the labour wasn't any easy for her either. I won't go into details but it was pretty traumatic for me so god knows how she coped.
Now 6 months down the line my girlfriend has recently been diagnosed as having lots of gall stones. We have had regular emergency visits to hospital due to pains but they wouldn't give her any pain killers and she is due to have the op mid Jan.
Now to the point of my message. Over the past week my girlfriends mood has deteriorated a lot. She keeps beating herself up(not literally) over the feeling she's a bad mum, etc
I commute to London from Suffolk every day which means I'm away from home 12 hours a day. On way into London yesterday after a series of texts and calls with the girlfriend, it got to the point I had to jump off at next station and go home to get her to see a doctor. She has now been diagnosed as having postnatal depression and prescribed some drugs ( the name I can't remember)
I'm typing this on my way to work as I lied to the boss yesterday saying I was Ill. But am worried if I have any more time off I'll lose my job. But at the same time my girlfriend needs me as her 'anchor'.
I'm wondering if there is anything I can do re work or anything I can do to assure my girlfriend while I go to work.
This is really upsetting for me so really couldn't imagine what my girlfriend is feeling!!
Sorry for the long read.
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worriedpartner12 · 06/12/2013 07:50
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