Just picked my DS up from school which is down busy winding country lanes.
Whilst driving I got distracted at one point and crossed over the line in the middle of the road. Thankfully nothing happened, I corrected myself and probably called myself an idiot.
The road was wet and I was driving below the speed limit but not stupidly slow.
The car behind me was really close. At some point after this she started beeping me aggressively. As I indicated and pulled into another road she followed closely and beeped loudly again. As I passed another school I slowed to let cars pass and again she started aggressively beeping. Every time I let anyone out or I was driving below the speed limit she was beeping, right up my arse and flashing at me. At times she looked like she was going to overtake me in dangerous places.
When we got to a roundabout she pulled up beside me and mimed that she had filmed me and that I shouldn't be on the road and she'd report me.
I was confused. I can't tell if she was mad because I wasn't driving fast and was letting people past or if it was the swerve.
To be fair, I was distracted when I swerved. I can't remember at what point it happened but I had been sneezing some of the time, my son felt sick and was talking lots. He has selective mutism at school (ASD kid) and tends to talk when he gets in the car. I'm also very stressed at the moment and am easily distracted. I can't remember at what point I swerved but I know I did rummage in my bag and pass my son my phone. There isn't an excuse but I can't tell if I'm IABU or she is?
Also kinda worried that if she reports me to the police for the swerving I'll get into trouble.
AIBU?
I swerved whilst driving - angry driver behind said she will report me. AIBU?
GettingItAllRong · 28/03/2024 17:04
Am I being unreasonable?
372 votes. Final results.
POLLTiswa · 28/03/2024 17:13
you cannot rummage in a bag to get a phone and be that distracted you could easily have caused an accident - you must know that is what she was talking about
GettingItAllRong · 28/03/2024 17:12
I agree, but unfortunately DS is in a SEND school on the other side of the county. I spend three hours a day on his school run. I can't move closer because my other DS is also at a SEND school about an hour away in the other direction. They both require differing provision and moving them to the same school would be another battle with the LA which I cannot afford. I am exhausted. I don't want to be in the situation but my children need to be in school.
GettingItAllRong · 28/03/2024 17:12
I agree, but unfortunately DS is in a SEND school on the other side of the county. I spend three hours a day on his school run. I can't move closer because my other DS is also at a SEND school about an hour away in the other direction. They both require differing provision and moving them to the same school would be another battle with the LA which I cannot afford. I am exhausted. I don't want to be in the situation but my children need to be in school.
GettingItAllRong · 28/03/2024 17:12
I agree, but unfortunately DS is in a SEND school on the other side of the county. I spend three hours a day on his school run. I can't move closer because my other DS is also at a SEND school about an hour away in the other direction. They both require differing provision and moving them to the same school would be another battle with the LA which I cannot afford. I am exhausted. I don't want to be in the situation but my children need to be in school.
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