Ok Ok .. the last part is possibly U....
I have an extensive collection of playmobil which has been boxed up for many years. I briefly got it out 10 years ago when my DSs were 7/8ish but after a particularly traumatising incident where they broke some I boxed it all back up and put it away and never got it back out. I say this to show that my attachment to it is frankly ridiculous.
My cousins daughter is 6. She is in many ways an mini version of me at that age and I adore her and obviously indulge her and am silly with her in ways her parents can't be. I (obviously) have been buying her Playmobil for birthdays and Xmas which she loves. My collection came up in a discussion at a birthday meal recently and cousins daughter asked if she could come over and play. I said it was boxed away and that was it.
Except it isn't. Cousin has asked about "getting some sets for her DC since I aren't using it". I've politely said various versions of no with excuses, but this morning I had this message,
Hey Q. Any more thoughts over the Playmobile? DC is beside herself with excitement ay the thought of having some of yours! We are out for Mothers Day this afternoon but I'll give you a bell later. xx
Clearly I need a stronger "No over my dead body" response but having moaned mentioned this to DM at lunch she thinks IABU to not "pass it down".
DB thinks I should just go buy a box off Facebook and hand that over which I am considering.
So AIBU to want to keep my Playmobil?
AIBU?
To not give up my Playmobil and cut cousins hands off if she tries to take it?
Qantaqa · 19/03/2023 13:15
Am I being unreasonable?
2207 votes. Final results.
POLLGhoulWithADragonTattoo · 22/03/2023 08:35
I would lend it to the little girl but ask her to keep yours separate. You won't have to actually watch her like did for your own kids. She will probably grow of it fairly soon.
Qantaqa · 21/03/2023 17:57
@watcherintherye I did manage to save him yes. Hes got a permalimp and would defo be the first picked off by predators but I'll make sure when he comes back out he's in a safe lion proof enclosure :)
My vague plan has been to get them back out if when the DSs leave and play with display them. I'd be fine with older people playing with them .. its youngish kids that give me the heebie jeebies so those wanting to come play there is an open invitation. Hopefully we can get @SoMuchToBits round to set us up holiday appropriate sets ;)
I actually off the back off this asked the DSs what they would do with it when I died - DS1 said he's going to leave it in a cupboard and tell his children never to touch it, and then tell them to tell their kids the same, and them theirs and so on and so on forever...... DS2 said he'd not thought about it but he likes DS1s idea.
SchoolTripDrama · 21/03/2023 19:06
Sweaty paws? WTF
Missingpop · 20/03/2023 19:31
The real reason your cousin wants to get her sweaty paws on it is because she knows it’s worth a few quid politely tell her to fuck off & that when they are sold on they will be sold for the benefit of you & yours not her & hers !!!
Missingpop · 20/03/2023 19:31
The real reason your cousin wants to get her sweaty paws on it is because she knows it’s worth a few quid politely tell her to fuck off & that when they are sold on they will be sold for the benefit of you & yours not her & hers !!!
OnaBegonia · 21/03/2023 15:40
@NailsForBreakfastTacksForSnacks
The meaning of the saying is to enjoy and use things not 'keep for good/later', we've recently cleared an elderly relatives home, full of boxes of 'stuff' kept for good, savings kept for rainy days whilst living like a pauper, what was the point? no enjoyment was had.
OnaBegonia · 21/03/2023 13:30
@Pixiedust1234
Enjoy? knowing it's locked up
in a cupboard? not even her own kids got a use of it. Likely the kids will chuck it the bin eventually.
toomuchlaundry · 21/03/2023 11:28
@whumpthereitis but wouldn’t the equivalent of someone who likes their boxed collection of playmobil be someone who enjoys camping but just having the tent in the loft until they die
toomuchlaundry · 21/03/2023 14:01
@NailsForBreakfastTacksForSnacks in boxes not being used or seen, is she going to have them in her coffin?
toomuchlaundry · 21/03/2023 14:01
@NailsForBreakfastTacksForSnacks in boxes not being used or seen, is she going to have them in her coffin?
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OnaBegonia · 21/03/2023 12:42
I never see the point in this keeping things never to be used, you're a long time dead as my granpa said, enjoy things whilst you can.
Not even let your own kids play with it is silly, it's plastic toys.
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