I am a very private person and don't like people taking pictures of me or my baby, and posting them on social media. I have met with some family members who have taken pictures of me without asking and being offended if I don't want to be in a picture and also when I ask them to delete it.
For my birthday I also asked for no pictures, and they started taking their phones out and filming. I thought this was really rude.
I now have a baby and planning to have them baptised, and I don't want the event filmed, or taken pictures, or on social media.
I feel the only option I have is not invite them. AIBU?
AIBU?
AIBU for not wanting to invite family to baptism?
Saju1 · 24/11/2022 21:36
Am I being unreasonable?
112 votes. Final results.
POLLKeyansier · 24/11/2022 21:52
IMO you sound quite hard work and like you're trying to draw attention to yourself, thinking people taking photos of you or your baby are the equivalent of paparazzi shots.
YANBU to not invite anyone who would potentially take photos at your event if you didn't want them to, but YABU to complain if nobody decides to show up to said event after learning of your imposed strict rule of no phones allowed.
kitcat15 · 24/11/2022 22:53
You sound like hard work OP 🙄.... they probably be glad not to have to come to the baptism.....I always find them really boring
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