I feel awful writing this, but I’ve been really unhappy lately and while things get a little better here and there I’ve realised one of the things I find so difficult. The after school monotony. My daughter is 5 and my son is 2. My day consists of getting them up, making them breakfast, making oldest packed lunch, getting them dressed and then taking them to school and nursery (husband and I do all of the above together). I work from home (which I love and always have loved to do) then pick up smallest at lunch time. We then have an hour and get eldest from school.
We come home and I’m accosted with requests for snacks 😂 then the smallest is shouting at me to play trains and eldest wants to play every game of ‘pretend’ under the sun which I just can’t bear especially as I’m constantly told how to do it and that I’m doing it wrong 🤣. If I don’t play with them they just plonk in front of the tv for a few hours which makes me feel utterly useless and terrible. Then I make dinner and husband has usually then finished work so the bedtime battles begin, they finally get to bed and then I’m just exhausted and don’t want to do anything. This is by far the hardest stage of parenting I’ve ever been through- I just find the incessant requests to play so boring 😓 I feel terrible for it but it’s just me being honest! We’re very lucky that they both adore each other. I put a request in for my eldest to go to after school club a couple of times a week with her mates but it’s full and even then the guilt of knowing she doesn’t NEED to be there and I’m sort of just palming her off.
Does anyone else feel like this? I honestly don’t want this to come across the wrong way, I adore my children and am very patient and non-shouty but I just don’t know how to get out of this funk. I’m hoping it’ll just get easier as the smallest gets older and they can play together a bit more.
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To be tired of the monotony.
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Stickworm · 26/09/2022 21:30
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