I just want to check if I'm being rude here. I want to ask (nicely) a family member not to send me pics of their kids. I'm not interested in a 100 pics of what Johnny ate for breakfast, Johnny getting the bus, Johnny eating his ice cream, Johnny at soft play, Johnny having his afternoon nap etc. You get the idea. I told a friend I want to stop the pics and she said there's nothing I can say that won't cause offence. What d'you think? Aibu? How can I handle this better?
AIBU?
Would it be offensive & rude to ask a family member to stop sending me pics of their dc?
FabulousFlowerpots · 01/05/2022 20:32
Am I being unreasonable?
814 votes. Final results.
POLLYouAreNotBatman · 01/05/2022 21:19
Well that is fucking boring, that’s for sure!
I’m suorised about the answers.
Surely it’s rude to bore people with your kids pictures, they can’t believe anyone else cares, right?
FabulousFlowerpots · 01/05/2022 20:41
I see no one's saying tell them. I bet other people would be annoyed with me if I spammed them with pics of every bit of my motorbike that I'm restoring.
SewingMum46 · 01/05/2022 21:09
About 20 years ago one of my DSILs used to send us emails which always contained sexually explicit “funny” pictures - think naked man holding hot dog roll with something other than a hot dog inside the roll, as an example. It was long before smartphones and we lived in a very conservative country where emails were monitored for offensive content - and I often used to open mails with DD as they were a bit of a novelty. So I always had a bit of a sinking feeling when I saw something from her in my inbox.
I actually had to email DSIL and ask her to send me family photos and not the stuff that she thought we’d find funny but could land us in serious trouble.
After I’d emailed though, we didn’t get any more photos. At all. And she’s not married to DBIL any more either.
FabulousFlowerpots · 01/05/2022 20:32
I just want to check if I'm being rude here. I want to ask (nicely) a family member not to send me pics of their kids. I'm not interested in a 100 pics of what Johnny ate for breakfast, Johnny getting the bus, Johnny eating his ice cream, Johnny at soft play, Johnny having his afternoon nap etc. You get the idea. I told a friend I want to stop the pics and she said there's nothing I can say that won't cause offence. What d'you think? Aibu? How can I handle this better?
Heathyou · 01/05/2022 21:06
I wouldn't ask them to stop, no!
What relative is it? I love receiving pics of my brother's child. They can never send too many. Maybe I'm alone haha.
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HeadToToesNo · 01/05/2022 20:34
How are they sending them? If its WhatsApp you could mute the conversation but periodically throw in a 'that's nice'.
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