OK - so, i go to a lovely M&T group on a friday, and while the lovely old dears who organise it tidy some of the toys away and prepare drinks and biscuits (and cups of tea for mums) for the children, the mums (and dads and grandparents etc) have a little informal singing session with the children, just to distract them really and they enjoy it. So, twice while i have been there, a grandparent brings her GD (i dont have issue with this, she just happens to be a GP) and she thinks that we should sing each song twice because that way the children "learn" it better and know what is being sung (all under three!) the second time around. So, again she points it out to the lady who takes the lead with the singing, first time we repeat it, only a short song, then we do "wheels on the bus" so this is quite long and repetitive, not only does she insist on sining stuff like "the ticket collecter on the bus says fares please" quite a mouthful! we get to the end and she says to the lady, when we decide to sing a different song, um, and again!! in a rather bossy head teachery tone. I sat quietly seething but a rather forthright woman (who i am quite scared of actually) said, oh for gods sake, cant we just have another quick song.
I mean, she should wind her neck in, she doesnt come to the group regularly, it is hardly a teaching exercise, just something we do to keep the kids occupied while some of the toys are spirited away. Bossy baggage - i just sat there thinking, thank the lord she is not my MIL!!!
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To think that a woman at MT should not try and impose her "parenting" on the rest of us.
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lucyellensmum · 16/11/2007 16:18
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