I’ve posted before about a lot of problems with my dd.
• she has a boyfriend who’s smokes and smokes cannabis and cocaine
• her dads house has no rules so she regularly goes there to stay but doesn’t like her dad so prefers here for home comforts
• she has stayed with the boyfriend at his mums house for several months refusing to speak to me.
Things have improved and she is back home but she causes so much trouble. Her room is an absolute mess that I refuse to clean. She cries about it and says she feels unwell in an effort to get me to do it. (She is well at the weekend when she goes to her boyfriend dads to stay who lives over 30 miles away, she travels by train and taxi to get there with no signs of illness)
The clothes she brings back from her boyfriends from the weekend stink and I mean stink of smoke and cannabis which in turn makes my house and her room smell. She doesn’t put them in the wash for days and I’m not doing everything for her - she is nearly 17!
Just now I’m currently sat in livingroom whilst she lays in bed refusing to get up for school. I have a day off work and I’m absolutely sick of this stress in the mornings of her not getting up and making us all late. I won’t leave until she is ready as I know she would just go back to bed if I left her.
I’ve been working non stop 6 days a week for the last 5 weeks and this is my first day off. My heart is thudding and I’m shaking with anger.
I bought heavy duty black bin bags at the shop when I dropped my son off at school as I’m planning on packing up her stuff and dropping it all at her dads. He encouraged this behaviour so can deal with it. Am I being awful?
God knows how I’m going to get her out.
Ps for the record I had very bad dv off her dad so speaking to him is not an option.
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Smoothsoul · 11/05/2021 09:06
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