To think the analysis referred to in this article is inadequate. It is true that freedoms for children are a thing of the past and that this is not great. But to think that we need to focus on the reasons why and do something about them and that should have been the focus of this research.
First sexual exploitation and manipulation and grooming of minors on the internet is a huge problem which needs to be sorted out and it is difficult to justify saying to a parent "just sent them out to have an adventure" when the problems are so stark. Secondly, teen gang violence in some areas nowadays is far beyond what it was when I was young. Thirdly the advice we get from police is to know where our dc are and what they are doing. And traffic.
And then the article makes a connection with mental health about children not getting outside enough. In my experience, the children not getting out are those who are gaming or watching tv or not doing other activities and not interracting with anyone including familiies. This is the core problem isn't it? If parents are taking dc out, dc get a lot of time outside but parents keep an eye, organiising social things and activities, where the children play freely but while still on the parents' radar, is this really going to definitely lead to MH problems just because the child isn't doing it on their own before the age of 11?
The children I know who had protective parents started to be very independent at around 14 and went on to be independent, happy, successful adults.
www.theguardian.com/society/2021/apr/20/gradual-lockdown-of-uk-children-as-age-for-solo-outdoor-play-rises
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thespeckswings · 20/04/2021 17:30
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