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AIBU?

To be terrified I’ve got an infection?

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moranish · 03/05/2020 10:47

Shamelessly posting here for traffic as I’ve worked myself into a bit of a state over this and need advise ASAP. Judge me all you want, I know I’ve been incredibly fucking stupid and I am absolutely mortified but I don’t know what to do.

Was seeing someone casually before the lockdown started, and being the daft cow that I am we had unprotected sex twice. Yesterday I began having green discharge coming out constantly (I’d say the same amount of liquid as I’d get mid-period) and it’s really swollen down there to the point I can’t walk properly as it kills. The discharge also looks like pus to me, so I’m terrified of a serious infection or sepsis. Other than the possibility I’ve caught something, I also suspect I had a very early miscarriage last month, it was around the time my period would have been but it was not a normal period at all, huge clots, intense pain that made me vomit, back agony etc but I assumed it had all passed and never got checked out. I’m concerned some of that retained and is infected? My period came normally this month and I’d just come to the end of it when this other stuff started.

The swelling, pain and constant discharge is making it impossible for me to function properly. I used the Lloyd’s Online Doctor service and filled in the form describing my symptoms and they told me to visit a GP urgently and said their services couldn’t help.

Except I can’t do that at the moment and also all of the sexual health clinics near me are shut. I’m very worried about this and worried there’s an infection further up in my internal organs as I keep getting random abdominal stabby pains and I feel a bit nauseous. What can I do? I definitely don’t want to risk my future fertility or my life by ignoring this.

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walksonthebeach · 20/09/2020 00:22

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MustShowDH · 15/05/2020 14:32

I wonder what happened?

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HowFurloughCanYouGo · 09/05/2020 11:25

Whenever I see OP's disappear like this I always think fuck I hope they're not dead. 😱

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understandme · 08/05/2020 09:16

@NotKeenOnSwede I'm sure the OP is no longer reading this!

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NotKeenOnSwede · 08/05/2020 08:23

People really need to stop hassling the OP whether it's due to genuine concern or just being bloody nosy, she knows this thread is here if she wants to update she will. Either she has too much to deal with right now or she is absolutely fine and just wants to forget about the whole thing. Just leave her alone!

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Notenoughchocolateomg · 07/05/2020 21:34

Any news OP? Really hoping you are ok.

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MyEnormousTurnip · 07/05/2020 13:27

Any update op? Hope you are ok.

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Ratatatata · 05/05/2020 16:36

Itching probably bad choice of word!

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IncrediblySadToo · 05/05/2020 15:30

How are you doing today?

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RogerBannister · 05/05/2020 13:51

Oh come on now. You can’t tell me you’re not itching to know what the green stuff is?

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Microzilla · 05/05/2020 06:20

lockheart exactly. It is up to posters if they update a thread or not. Asking or saying you’d hoped for one is just prurient.

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Lockheart · 05/05/2020 00:20

Good grief, stop badgering the OP for updates.

I imagine she has quite enough to deal with in real life. If she wants to come back I'm sure she will in her own time.

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topazdiamondsandemeralds · 05/05/2020 00:12

How are you OP?? SadFlowersI hope yore feeling better x

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dublingirl653 · 05/05/2020 00:03

How did it go?
You feeling better now? DaffodilDaffodil

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Scarlettpixie · 04/05/2020 19:58

Hope you got seen OP and are doing ok. That sounds awful.

Just a side note about GPs, ours are open 7 days a week during Covid with a telephone triage service and appointments if needed. I had a uti on Easter monday. I was triaged over the phone and give a prescription which I was able to collect the same day. Better service than usual!

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Seabreeze18 · 04/05/2020 19:42

Was hoping for an update? Hope alll ok?

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gettingusedtothelimelight · 04/05/2020 19:35

@moranish I hope everything is ok. Come back and update us.

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ElectricTonight · 04/05/2020 19:11

Thinking of you OP, I hope you are on the mend x

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Buzzfrightyears · 04/05/2020 18:49

I really hope you are ok and feeling a bit better

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OpticVA · 04/05/2020 17:14

Hope you’re okay. Thinking of you Flowers

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Idontwantthis · 04/05/2020 15:37

Hope you’re alright!

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Dizzywizz · 04/05/2020 13:30

How are you @moranish?

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JJSS123 · 04/05/2020 09:57

Hope you’re okay x

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WelcomeToTheNorth · 04/05/2020 09:52

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Dontjudgeme101 · 04/05/2020 09:48

Hope your ok op

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