This is all a bit of a mess. My MIL and her sister were left a house and they put it on the market. It didn't sell so they offered it to me and my DH at a reduced price. (they were going to send it to auction at a reduced price for a quick sale)
I was a bit unsure about whether to buy the house, it is small and I don't like the area and it needs a lot of stuff doing to it. But I got swept along by the whole 'this is your only chance to get on the property ladder' stuff and my DH was really enthusiastic about it.
It's been a fecking nightmare, it's been a really slow process and my MIL and her sister have been on my back for the whole time because they want their dosh.
Saving up for the various fee's has been really hard and I have been stressed to the very max trying to ensure that our bills are covered and that we can save enough to pay the stamp duty etc.
We have been told that the formal mortgage offer will be out next week, and I have realised that I don't want to move.
First of all my DH has had a nice pay rise, if we move then the mortgage will absorb all that. If we stay we can save it.
The house needs a lot of stuff doing to it. I can't see how we can afford it.
We are pretty secure where we are, and I don't think that now is a good time to commit to a big mortgage.
And then there are the emotional reasons, I have friends here, the kids are happy at their school, I've started and evening class...
The thought of moving makes me depressed. And I don't think that you are supposed to feel that way about buying your first house.
I want to wait, save money andd buy a house when I want to and where I want to. I feel like this has been forced upon me. And if I pull out then my in-laws will be pissed off with me for messing them about.
I haven't spoken to DH about how I feel yet, I wasn't sure if I was being stupid or not.
All opinions gratefully received.
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obimomkanobi · 12/09/2007 17:46
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