WOMEN NOT LISTENED TO BY DRS
I was thinking of maybe posting this in FWR, or health - but I've chosen to post it here because I think it's important and it affects ALL women not just those of us with a particular interest in FWR or healthcare.
It affects us, our mothers, grandmothers, sisters, daughters, aunts, nieces... ALL of us and I think it's a scandal it's not major news.
I've posted before about research I was shocked to read which said that women take 3-4 times LONGER to get a dx (including for non-specifically women's illness) than it takes for a man.
Due to discussion on another thread where @Helenadove kindly posted a link, I ended up doing some more reading - and I've barely touched the sides I fear!!
I really strongly feel this is an important issue that's being ignored.
www.the-pool.com/health/health/2018/43/Selma-Blair-multiple-sclerosis-diagnosis-MS-Instagram?fbclid=IwAR0kyme8FylvAYrpY3BNRi-ZCO4UJN5nzLMElYA9xQFcPJy3HMbl7QYCZHM
"Unconscious and conscious bias work together, to ensure that women's health complaints are minimised, ignored, trivialised and belittled. Female patients are told they're hysterical, hypochondriac, anxious or paranoid - that it is all in their head" - X 1000 if you have a mh dx!!
They even coin a term for it "healthcare gaslighting".
Venus Williams pnd pre-eclampsia and burst c section, blood clot
www.the-pool.com/people/women-we-love/2018/32/beyonce-and-serena-williams-show-vulnerability-in-vogue-cover-and-instagram-post
"As is so often the case for women experiencing pain, both the nurse and doctor dismissed her claims"
www.the-pool.com/news-views/latest-news/2018/7/Lily-Peschardt-on-Lena-Dunham-hysterectomy
Such attitudes are KILLING us:
www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2017/07/31/mother-died-paramedics-accused-faking-symptoms-attention-inquest/
Coroner: "Gross failure to provide basic medical care"
I'm allergic to the same medication.
www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/how-sexist-stereotypes-mean-doctors-ignore-womens-pain-a7157931.html
"women are more likely to be given sedatives as treatment, instead of pain-relieving drugs"
And apparently it's the one time being good looking works against you:
"doctors subconsciously assume people who look ‘better’ on the outside, are healthier and subsequently require less treatment."
www.independent.co.uk/voices/period-pain-is-officially-as-bad-as-a-heart-attack-so-why-have-doctors-ignored-it-the-answer-is-a6883831.html
Shocking!
www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/10/emergency-room-wait-times-sexism/410515/
I've had ovarian torsion too. Incredibly painful, worse than endo or labour and frightening because one second you're fine then next in a heap in agony! I was lucky, as I'd that already previously had an ectopic pregnancy (also less painful but I was worried it was happening again) and dx of the endo and surgery for same, the medics straight away assumed a gynae issue. But I know from 2 friends who've had the same that it could have been very different. One was assumed initially to have appendicitis, the other like the lady in the article kidney stones. Thankfully in time these diagnoses were found to be wrong but not in the general course of things but in one case by a neighbouring patient suggesting it, and the other the ct scan person suggested it - before doing the scan!
thenib.com/medicine-s-women-problem
Sonething I know a LOT of mners have experienced and a relative of mine too - again several YEARS of appointments and telling several Drs of the symptoms. That's UNACCEPTABLE.
So I would love to know your experience of being dismissed by hcps as "exaggerating" "hysterical" "anxious" rather than having your symptoms investigated, tests done and referrals made.
I'd also like to ask WHY don't Drs LISTEN to patients?! Especially women?! (And in my experience the female Drs can be as bad as the men!)
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