I want to check I'm not being an unreasonable monster!
Ex husband has thrown his toys out the pram about contact and threatened DD with getting lawyers involved. I've tried to phone him but not answering.
We've never had a formal arrangement but I've NEVER tried to limit contact. In the 6 or so years we've been separated I've said no to contact maybe once or twice and that's usually due to him asking for her the day before he wants her!
DD is nearly 15 so most arrangements he does directly through her.
After we split he moved a 40 minute drive away. I've recently moved but drive is still 40 minutes.
His contact has been sporadic at best, always on his terms and maybe every month at most, sometimes he'll go 3 months with no contact.
Now apparently he's sick of seeing her so little 🤔.
He wants to make it 2 weekends a month which is absolutely fine, however he wants me to do all the pick ups and drop offs as he's sick off "running around".
We'd usually do one each - surely I don't have to do both of them?
His alternative is I stick her on a train- a journey she's never done and it'll be dark by the time she gets there.
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Grumpypig · 16/10/2018 20:09
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