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AIBU?

Aibu to be terrified even though I’ve done this before?

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PinkSnowAndStars · 11/03/2018 21:49

So tomorrow morning at 11 I have to go into the hospital to be induced at 39 weeks due to deceleration of his heart rate on Friday (I’d just dropped by blood pressure after having blood taken so probably that)

I have a 6 year old. I’ve done this before.

But I’m sitting here in tears, crying at every single little thing because I’m scared. Because I have no control over what happens next. Because I have to have the pessary and then wait 6 hours before having another one, and I passionately don’t want a c-section and a lot of inductions end in C-Sections.

My husband works nights so it’s just me and the 6 year old here at the moment. Not many people know I’m being induced because I don’t want people messaging to ask if he’s here yet.

So my AIBU is to ask for a handhold and some positive stories?

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Asmadasmax · 18/03/2018 22:44

Hope all is well xx

Floralnomad · 13/03/2018 16:47

He’s obviously very happy where he is .

PinkSnowAndStars · 13/03/2018 16:44

Still no baby. He’s in no hurry at all!

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HicDraconis · 13/03/2018 01:55

Good luck! I had an induction with my first, ended in a lovely delivery in the room (ventouse and a few stitches, nothing worse).

If you've laboured naturally with one child and delivered vaginally you are statistically far more likely to have a normal vaginal delivery with this one too - your body knows what to do, it's done it before.

Just think - snuggly newborn cuddles soon and they're all yours!

SeaToSki · 13/03/2018 01:28

4 dc and 4 inductions, i dont start labour very well apparently! The first was a bit long, but the other 3 came much more easily. I think second and subsequent births are often less stressful as the first one trains the body in what to do (so to speak). Hope it is going well.

thegreatbeyond · 13/03/2018 01:26

I've had two inductions. The second one was the most boring birth ever...I'd had an epidural and literally felt nothing.

DuckbilledSplatterPuff · 13/03/2018 01:22

My first was a 30 hour labour. My third was induced for being one day over the due date. I was very worried, particulary when they said they might need to break the waters, that got to me for some reason, but they didn't need to do it, In the end it was so quick and a really easy birth to the calmest baby. It happened so quickly that the nurse didn't believe I was about to deliver there and then. Her face when she realised was a treat!!. Wishing you all the very best luck.

Wintertime4 · 13/03/2018 01:10

What helped me was allowing my fear to bubble up, like you, not fight it, just let it be and wash over me. I too had to be induced, the night before going into hospital was very anxious and lonely. However once you start getting ready, going in, there is a calming sense that professionals are now caring for you, you are in a safe space, they know what they are doing.

The next time I got a hypnotism birth tape - is there any calming / meditation apps or radio / songs you can listen to tonight? Write down a letter to your future new baby as a way of getting your thoughts to calm a little?

You will be fine. We’ve been through it. You are not alone.

Your baby will be born very soon! Just get through the next minutes... hour... night.

Big hugs.

firawla · 13/03/2018 00:54

Good luck op! I’ve had 2 inductions (out of 4) and I found it’s only harder when it’s your first - otherwise it’s pretty straight forward. Fingers crossed you’ll be fine and it’ll all go smoothly and quickly! Hope it’s starting to get going for you around now!

NotASingleFuckToGive · 13/03/2018 00:50

I was induced with my last 2 pregnancies at 40+9 and 40+11 (lazy babies!!) and on both occasions I stayed active, bopping on the birthing ball while watching TV, walking round hospital grounds, and getting in the wet room shower when contractions picked up.
Both labours were 5hrs long once I got into established labour, no tears, and no need for any intervention
First induced DD was born in the birthing pool and this was amazing...the pain just eased down about 20% which meant I was able to relax and it progressed quicker due to that.
Second DD I'd wanted another waterbirth but someone got to the pool before me! But I cannot fault the inductions at all. I didn't need the Syntocin drip (which i have heard can make things go disconcertingly fast!), but if this is needed then you can always request more pain relief to counteract that, I believe.

Good luck OP, you'll have your beautiful baby in your arms soon!

NotASingleFuckToGive · 13/03/2018 00:34

How are you doing, PinkSnow?

PinkSnowAndStars · 13/03/2018 00:18

Apparently it’s waiting for a space on the delivery suite and then they break my waters.

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EndisinSight · 13/03/2018 00:02

I had an induction at 40 +12 and four, yes four failed sweeps!

Was a quick, straight forward vaginal birth. No intervention needed and with only gas and air.

If I could choose to do the same again, I would.

Inductions aren't always bad.

Allthecoolkids · 12/03/2018 23:42

What happens next?

Floralnomad · 12/03/2018 23:38

Just came on to see whether anything had happened , perhaps you will get some action overnight OP . Best wishes .

PinkSnowAndStars · 12/03/2018 21:23

thanks... nothing seems to be happening so it’s all really boring.

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MrsWineasaurus · 12/03/2018 18:57

Good luck OP!

DaisyInTheChain · 12/03/2018 10:01

I know it's scary, so many unknowns, but feel reassured you'll have people around to help with anything you need. Whilst it feels like you'll have no control, midwives have bodily autonomy driven into them during training.

Make sure when pain hits a certain level you ask for the adequate pain relief then.

I know lots like the idea of birth plans, but baby hasn't read the birth plan so might have their own ideas.

Focus on the positives that in less than 48 hours you'll have a gorgeous baby in your arms.

HeyJupiter · 12/03/2018 10:00

Good luck OP!

I had a dream of an induction, normal vaginal birth and epidural before they started the drip so didn’t feel a thing. Was very controlled and very calm. If I had a preference I would do this again next time.

You get to meet your baby really soon

hatetosayitoldyouso · 12/03/2018 09:57

Good luck op, not all inductions end with c-section.

Hope everything goes quickly and smoothly for you.

niddy · 12/03/2018 08:07

Thinking of you pink. We are all here with you. Keep as centred and focused as possible. You can do this!

SundaySalon · 12/03/2018 07:46

Good luck OP!

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PinkSnowAndStars · 12/03/2018 07:38

Thanks! I’ve had hardly any sleep which isn’t helping the tears. At least he will be here soon I guess.

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Celticlassie · 12/03/2018 07:33

Good luck today OP!

PinkSnowAndStars · 12/03/2018 01:01

Thank you... I’m trying to tell myself that it might not be all that bad, and I’ll be in the right place etc. I just need to try and relax and get some sleep but it’s easier said than done

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