Bit jaded ATM so may have a clouded view, but I'm sick to death of the "don't settle" message.
Now , don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating staying in a dv /ea/fa etc relationship.
More the thought that if your current dp/bf has some "flaw" then get rid, get a better one, you deserve more, "don't settle". All ,in essence,good advice
Well I'm a 50 year old single mum to 4 teenage dcs, ex walked out 5 years ago, my physical appearance is heavily affected by scarring /severe skin condition.
In terms of OLD I'm just not " it" and in real life I just never , and I mean never, get approached.
I don't have the choice to "not settle" in the first f**king place.
Sorry for the rant, but the "it will happen when you least expect it", "there's plenty more fish..." Etc gets my goat, and it's usually said by those IN relationships.
I'm expecting all the "well if you were more positive" messages but if you were to meet me you'd think me (so friends have told me) happy,funny and generous,
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To hate the "don't settle" fantasy.
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