To be a bit annoyed....

[Sienna333]

That my babysitter accepted a lift home with DD by a friend of mine from school without checking it was ok?

[Oysterbabe]

Eh?
Why don't you dripfeed us the rest of the story already. The friend was drunk? Your DD was thrown in the boot?

[confusedlittleone]

More details needed- was there enough seats/seat belts? Was she supposed to be in a car seat but wasn't? A friend of yours- so I'm assuming it's someone you know?

[RedSkyAtNight]

So why are you annoyed? Presumably you don't expect your babysitter to run every decision they make past you? What makes this one so special?

[ifyoucantstandtheheat]

what's the problem, short of absence of appropriate car seat?

Really cannot see an issue here at all.

[ThroughThickAndThin01]

Why are you annoyed? Sounds perfect,

[ThePinkOcelot]

Eh?! Why the hell are you annoyed?

[Mulberry72]

Don’t you trust your babysitter or your friend?

[NapQueen]

If dd should be in a carseat and wasnt yanbu.

If not yabu.

[PinkHeart5914]

So you trust this babysitter to look after your child but you think they are not adult enough to judge if it’s ok to accept a lift or not

[Nicknacky]

Why are you annoyed?

[ILoveMillhousesDad]

Eh?

[booellesmum]

If DD was secure and in a car seat then yabu.
If no car seat then yanbu.

[Heratnumber7]

Yes. YABU. What on earth is wrong with that?

[TroubleinDaFamily]

Not sure I see the problem.

[Missonihoni]

You just said it's a friend of yours?

What's the problem

[Tinselistacky]

Surely you trust them both with your dd?