Ok, would love a bit of straight talking/a sounding board.
Life plan: to move from the city I went to uni in back to my home town eventually. Felt the pull especially in the last 2/3 years. Now it's all happening- house on market, school place for dc in new town and I'm see-sawing..
I am by nature anxious enough, awful for overthinking, worrying and going back over 'should/would/could have' moments. I'm happy in current place - there's a lot of facilities, neighbourhood and school is good so that doesn't make things easier. I've friends here (been here 15y) but go home very often and up to it actually looking like reality I've envied friends on fb at home, posting about different things.
Is it normal enough to feel unsure and do I need to just make definite decision and run with it? (current state of indecision is making me less certain as time goes on) People are saying go with your gut, but some days my gut says: stay where you are, avoid the big change but this is the chance and I feel it's now or never. Any advice/anyone been equally unsure with positive ending??
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Heygirlheyboy · 27/07/2017 22:09
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