Me and my dbro aren't close at all, we could go several months without contacting each other. He shows very little interest in my DC and we never had a relationship as he relientless bullied me as a child. When they had dniece we bought them equipment and additional presents coming to about 70-80 pounds in total aswell as going to visit them. In addition they have received all of my dd beautiful clothing and shoes some of which was brand new and designers which they asked for. They have now announced they are expecting again and rather message to say your going to be an auntie again or your going to get a niece or nephew he informs me to save my money after Christmas to buy their new addition a birthday present. When I replied he didn't even engage in a proper conversation with me.
It's just not something you expect or demand off people comes off abit crass to me. Aibu?
I understand my feelings might be clouded by the fact that my DF is terminal ill and we went away as family including siblings. Dbro and his DW made some comments about me and our other dbro not doing enough for DF when in fact they live far away and we do a lot of stuff he isn't aware of we just don't make abig show of it. They also spoilt the holiday buy publicly arguing infront of us with his DW almost running him over it was embrassing. Dbro had almost been extremely demanding telling us what to do with our DF even telling DF what to do and TBH pissed me off to no end. It just appears I'm good for presents but nothing else and no effort is made to have a relationship with me or my DC. Me and my eldest dbro are close and he always makes the effort with the DC.
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To think it's rude to ask for gifts?
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Underthemoonlight · 20/06/2017 08:10
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