to be fed up with nothing being about me?

[stillsunday]

Fully expect to be told IABU. Knocking on the door of 40 weeks pregnant which may or may not be relevant.

DH is depressed and doing my best to support him. Had an argument yesterday and I ended up consoling him when it had upset him that our plans had changed so what he planned had to be pushed back a couple of hours. Reason for this being I needed him to help me with DC.

Cooked nice lunch for DC today (stuff they both like) only to have them refuse to eat it/tantrums when I said no ice cream if no lunch eaten. Ended up me being the bad guy for losing my shit at them and making them sit at the table until they'd eaten enough.

Despite enough hints that DH needs to be able to be safe to drive at the moment, he's cracking on his 4th beer as 'it's the weekend'. Doesn't like being told what to do. I can't be upset at him drinking but I can't help it because it shows a lack of respect for the state I'm in.

On the flip side, DH has done the laundry, shopping, let me lie in and brought me breakfast in bed. I've also been out to exercise for a bit.

Bit rambly I know but am I allowed to be fed up and just spend the evening on my own without talking to any of them?