Why is it that no matter what the occasion, someone always has to come into Mumsnet and disparage it? Yes, I'm sure that some people go to extremes with piles of presents and whatever but so what? Why does that seem to offend others so much? There is always someone at Christmas and Easter or on their holidays who 'can't wait to go back to work', which I find utterly incomprehensible. Are you really incapable of enjoying yourself outside of your job? Either some people have way better jobs than me (definitely true!) or they have really miserable lives (I hope that's not true, though obviously it is for some).
Today I am ill and in sole charge of two young children. We've all eaten about a week's worth of sugar, are fractious and overexcited and our attempt at playing board games culminated in one child lying face down on the carpet roaring in despair and rage whilst the other was sent to their room in disgrace so it's not like I'm feeling particularly Pollyanna-ish, but I'm sticking a low-effort roast in the oven and making crispy cakes and have even persuaded enough naps/independent playing to sneakily watch an episode of Buffy with a hot cup of coffee and I'm so pleased to have more time off work so I can stay in my pjs and eat chocolate. Other people on my FB are doing variously energetic and improving activities: good luck to them. If someone wants to dress up as a giant rabbit and shower their children with mountains of gifts, that doesn't bother me. I have religious family members to whom it's all extremely meaningful, that's great too. The only people bothering me are those who have to bitch and whine about anything that happens, ever. Just enjoy yourself and don't worry about what everyone else is doing!