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Children in business class for long flight... what's the MN verdict?

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Somerville · 15/01/2017 18:11

Come on then... genuinely don't know if I'm being unreasonable here. Who has a gavel to hand?!

We're going on holiday in the summer with other family members and their kids; 7 kids and 4 adults in total. DH just priced it all up, hoping that it would be within budget to travel premium economy (He's very tall!).

He was looking for the cheapest flights rather than particular dates and found a bargain for the outward flight with one airline - direct, business class seats for just £10 more per person than the standard premium economy price that month (and a quarter of the standard BC price) - and there are enough seats for all of us.

We're holding the flights, while we wait to hear if the dates work for the other couple. Assuming they do, how unreasonable is it to press buy? Any true business travellers who have to zoom off to meetings on another continent on arrival will be fuming, right, as we traipse on with 7 over-excited children?! But they're all pretty well-behaved kids, as kids go. And presumably the airline is anticipating low demand from business travellers for that flight, hence pricing it for holiday travellers instead. If we don't book it, others will. (And for that reason, I'm not stating the airline or destination!)

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MissBeehiving · 15/01/2017 19:23

We're taking our 2 boys (8 and 13) and DN (9) Upper Class on Virgin this October to the US. We booked the seats at the front of the cabin to minimise any disturbance but they are all pretty well behaved so I don't think that they'll be any problem to anyone. They are very keen on the thought of the onboard wifi and menu 😀 I can't imagine that many problems are caused by kids in BC, more likely some inebriated adults!

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ChocChocPorridge · 15/01/2017 19:23

Do it. I've travelled business class with a baby, and he was less hassle than the bloke near the front who was downright obnoxious.

Travelled all styles with my kids, and, without exception, the least well behaved people on the flight are adults. Sure my 3 year old occasionally yells when we board (the 'who gets the window seat fight), but after that he's fine, and I did smile to myself last time we flew when we were roughly overtaken by a couple who snorted 'Kinder!' as they pushed past, then, when we got on the flight they were the ones holding up everything as they mucked about getting their luggage in the overhead and retrieving their books/papers/cushion etc. I just chucked my kids in (yes, with the compulsory window seat fight), put my suitcase up and my snack/gadget bag on the seat and sat down. I resisted tutting at them because I have manners.

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CeeceeBloomingdale · 15/01/2017 19:23

No brainier, I've travelled I'm business class with mine since they were tiny. You pay the price, same as everyone else, no different to any other cabin.

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wasonthelist · 15/01/2017 19:24

"airport fast tracking."

Yeah, good luck with that one.

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TheSpottedZebra · 15/01/2017 19:25

But 4 adults to 7 kids means you'll be able to intersperse yourself amongst them if you want?

I'd book. But I would also ensure that we were mixed up adults/children (NB am not saying that you won't do this!)

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coconutpie · 15/01/2017 19:25

YABU for not pressing BUY straight away!! It's a total no brainer. As a pp said, the only requirement for travelling business class is having the funds to pay for it. I have no issue with DC travelling in higher classes. And before I had DC, I travelled Business Class (and thought DC there was fine).

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EmpressOfTheSpartacusOceans · 15/01/2017 19:25

Have a great time, MrsLovely!

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MatildaTheCat · 15/01/2017 19:26

When you book a seat in business class you buy that seat and have no say whatsoever who buys the other seats in the cabin. Could be loud shrieking adults who IMO would be more of a disturbance than most children. Nope, you get the seat, space and food/ drinks and, if you are lucky, a bit more attention from the staff.

I've sat in BC plenty of times with young DC and babies and they were fine. I believe Kate and Wills have done it a few times Grin.

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lokisglowstickofdestiny1 · 15/01/2017 19:26

Don't know which airline you are flying with but will be worth looking into reserving your seats. Executive club members will be able to select theirs for free quite a while before the flight depending on their tier, even it there aren't that many flying if enough reserve early you may all end up spread across the cabin.

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WankingMonkey · 15/01/2017 19:26

I am all in favour of making people such as Philip Green or Mike Ashley or the Saudi rulers go in economy and be denied business or first class travel.

Thus dumping them on the rest of us who cannot afford first/business class. Thanks Grin

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GatherlyGal · 15/01/2017 19:27

Do it do it. We've flown loads with kids. It is public transport after all and anyone who would like to travel without other people needs a private jet.

In all our time travelling there was always at least one adult being more antisocial noisy obnoxious than any of our DCs.

Of course don't let them run riot but otherwise enjoy it.

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morningtoncrescent62 · 15/01/2017 19:27

Nothing to add - other than do it, and have a lovely holiday Smile

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TheSpottedZebra · 15/01/2017 19:27

I fly BC to a holiday destination and there has never been anyone who looks remotely like they are trying to work. It's all families and couples.

I fly BC to Miami a fair bit - and I do have to work.

< in the distance, the plaintive sound of the world's tiniest violin can be heard >

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GatherlyGal · 15/01/2017 19:27

Do it do it. We've flown loads with kids. It is public transport after all and anyone who would like to travel without other people needs a private jet.

In all our time travelling there was always at least one adult being more antisocial noisy obnoxious than any of our DCs.

Of course don't let them run riot but otherwise enjoy it.

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Essexmum69 · 15/01/2017 19:32

I sent my older two DC business class to the US to stay with their uncle, unaccompanied, they were teenagers though. Some strange looks from other travellers at the gate apparently but everyone was helpfull on the plane. DD spent most of the night watching films and eating chocolate cake! They were not allowed in the lounge at Heathrow but that may have been because there was no adult with them.

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SoupDragon · 15/01/2017 19:34

I fly BC to Miami a fair bit - and I do have to work.

And? Confused that has no relevance to my experience at all.

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TheSpottedZebra · 15/01/2017 19:34

The lounge thing is because alcohol is freely available ie help - yourself.
It's in the terms of the liquor licence.
Fine if they're with an adult, but not as unaccompanied minors.

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TheSpottedZebra · 15/01/2017 19:36

Wow, Soup - it was a lighthearted comment. Ie that I go to a holiday destination and do have to work there.

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Atenco · 15/01/2017 19:36

Sorry why would businessmen and women be more entitled to peace and quiet than economy class?

Are they a better quality of people?

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EatsShitAndLeaves · 15/01/2017 19:36

I travel with work and have built up loads of air miles on Virgin.

As such we often use them for holidays to travel PE or Upper with the kids.

As long as the kids are well behaved I don't see an issue and tbh they should be kept under control whatever cabin you are in.

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Somerville · 15/01/2017 19:39

But 4 adults to 7 kids means you'll be able to intersperse yourself amongst them if you want?I'd book. But I would also ensure that we were mixed up adults/children (NB am not saying that you won't do this!)

I'll definitely sit where I can see my youngest, if I possibly can. As PP's point out, frequent BC travellers will get to choose seats in advance, leaving us with what is left.

DH is a frequent flyer with this airline so may be able to use that to get us assigned seats. He's not the highest level though, so maybe not.

Have a great time MrsLovely

It really make me laugh when people I've chatted to on the feminism board call me that, Empress Grin
And thanks. It is going to make me sound utterly spoiled to admit that this booking is for the holiday-after-next - still have honeymoon to look forward to soon! Without any children, thank God.

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EweAreHere · 15/01/2017 19:40

Book them in.

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lokisglowstickofdestiny1 · 15/01/2017 19:45

If it's BA get all of you signed up to the Executive Club you can group your frequent flyer point together, other airlines probably do similar.

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KanyeWesticle · 15/01/2017 19:49

I'd go for it. 50 quid is too good to pass up!

For the easiest plane parenting scenario, 7 kids and 4 adults means you can have an adult next to each child. Get 2 or 3 of the middle, 4 seat rows, so they are contained and close by.

Don't have them out of your sight, in another row. That just seems like asking for trouble!

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Somerville · 15/01/2017 19:51

No Atenco there is no such thing as a better class of people, IMO. Smile

More entitled to peace and quiet

That's your phrasing, not mine.
If you read my posts you'll see that my main concern is that it might be harder to keep the children quiet and considerate than if we were in standard seats where we'd have them in view/ be closer to them/ they'd be less excited by the experience.
But I did also worry that we would be in a cabin with business travellers rather than with other families, and therefore people around us would be less tolerant of children.
It sounds like BC is full of MNers, however. Grin

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