My best friend has been having a difficult time recently, she's been down a lot, most of it is to do with her boyfriend they argue a lot and she's told me that's been really getting to her.
We usually speak every couple of days to a week, see each other every couple of weeks but commenting/tagging each other in pictures ect on social media in between.
I haven't heard from her coming up to 3 weeks now, she hasn't been online at all, hasn't replied to my messages or texts, hasn't picked up the phone.
The first week or so I assumed maybe her phone had broken as that's pretty standard of her, I messaged and text a couple times.
I tried to ring her a few days ago, rang but she didn't answer, tried to ring today a few times as I'm really getting worried now, rang no answer, then I tried again about an hour later and it went straight to voicemail.
She is not the sort of person to cut someone out of their life without explanation, if she was upset with me she would come at me all guns blazing she certainly wouldn't give me the silent treatment so I know it's not that.
Maybe she's just feeling down and doesn't want to talk to anybody, hence the ringing and then it going straight to voice mail a while after, but again that is really really unlike her, I've known her for nearly all my life and she would tell me if she needed space.
I'm just so confused and really worried.
I've just messaged her boyfriend, but I don't have his number so it was on Facebook and he's not really into that so I doubt he'll check it anytime soon.
Other than that I have no idea what I can possibly do?
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Greenandyellowspottyumbrella · 23/11/2016 16:25
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