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The distribution of benefit money

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harshbuttrue1980 · 16/10/2016 12:01

This isn't intended to be a benefit bashing thread - I'm not questioning the overall amount of money that people on benefits get, but how it is allocated. I live in the SE, and have an acquaintance who is single and on benefits. As a working single person, I live in Slough rather than London as I can't afford London, and I commute in to work every day. My one-bedroom flat costs around £700 a month.
My acquaintance lives in London because she prefers being near a tube. She isn't held back by budgets, and gets £1000 a month for her one bedroom flat in a decent part of outer London. Sounds cushy... HOWEVER, she only gets around £70 a week to actually live on - that's for food, travel, electricity and water. She struggles, and has had to resort to food banks. So not so cushy at all!!!
AIBU to think this is a bit crazy? Wouldn't it be better for her to get £1280 a month and to actually have the chance to budget and make choices like everyone else? At the moment, she chooses to live in an expensive area as there is no incentive not to do so. She has already said that she would choose a cheaper area if it meant that she didn't have to struggle every month to pay the electric bill.
It seems insane to me that someone is living in a much plusher flat than lots of working people, but can barely scrape by in other ways. Maybe people out of work could be given a flat rate and make their choices about how to spend it? Or am I missing something?

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graphista · 19/10/2016 17:58

Bother? Perception I mean voter perception of course

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graphista · 19/10/2016 17:57

Wow I'm surprised it was as recent as that! I was a working lone parent at that time. Never heard of it despite having several friends who are also lone parents and on/off the benefits conveyor belt!

Yes reallytired I get the objection to do anything remotely sensible is usually down to bother perception (sigh) but you'd think saving taxpayer money would be the response?!

Martin Lewis totally gets the link between financial difficulties and mental health and is trying to persuade the govt to realise too! (As well as educate children in finance and support the waspi women too, I love him!)

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ReallyTired · 19/10/2016 13:55

"Oncethere - that sounds a fantastic idea which means of course no govt would ever entertain it! I've never understood the refusal to pay a mortgage when a mortgage payment is usually cheaper than rent and it must incur more costs all round if a family needs rehoused?! "

Ofcourse a lot of people buy houses bigger than they need. We have a four bed detached house for four people. I suppose the daily fail would be in uproar at a family with a house worth 500k getting help with mortgage interest. In the future such a family might be faced with negative equity. It's not always simple to sell a property in a recession. I feel a loan to help with mortgage payments would help a lot of people. I think it's an excellent idea for the properties to become council houses after a period of time.

The mental health side of being faced with potential reprocession is hideous.

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AndNowItsSeven · 19/10/2016 13:39

As did my friend Helena , it was an excellent Labour policy. The Tories are so backward thinking.

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AndNowItsSeven · 19/10/2016 13:38

It stopped on October 1st 2013 so not that long ago.

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HelenaDove · 19/10/2016 13:37

Seven is right. A single mum friend of mine got it when she went back to work.

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AndNowItsSeven · 19/10/2016 13:36

"Working benefits for lone parents

Check whether you will be eligible for In Work Credit, which is worth £40 a week (£60 in London), tax-free, on top of your salary. You can receive this benefit for up to 52 weeks after you start work - find out more on the DirectGov website."

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AndNowItsSeven · 19/10/2016 13:34

*it

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AndNowItsSeven · 19/10/2016 13:34

graph in was a policy in 2008 , unsure of the start and end years.

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graphista · 19/10/2016 06:22

Oncethere - that sounds a fantastic idea which means of course no govt would ever entertain it! I've never understood the refusal to pay a mortgage when a mortgage payment is usually cheaper than rent and it must incur more costs all round if a family needs rehoused?!

Andnow - I'd love to know when that was to see how much that would equate to now? But also even now £40 a week would still help a bit!

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OnceThereWasThisGirlWho · 19/10/2016 03:52

ReallyTired I feel that there should be some kind of way of helping people with housing costs for a short period of time.

I reckon the government should start paying the mortgage in this situation. Obviously they'd then own a certain % of your house, so later down the line you either pay them back or when the house is eventually sold they get their % cut. If they own more than 50% of the house by that stage they get first dibs at buying the rest of it to turn into council housing.
Voila!
Probably loads of flaws in that... Grin

ps. If we have more people than jobs, the unemployed are doing everyone a public service, really... Grin

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ReallyTired · 19/10/2016 02:00

JSA is a temporary benefit. I have no issue with someone bring helped for 6 months. When dh was unemployed we had zero help with our mortgage. It was really stressful and our modest savings evaporated. I feel that there should be some kind of way of helping people with housing costs for a short period of time.

Long term benefit claiments should be given a set amount of money to spend as they see fit. We should not worry if s benefit claiment has an extra room. I think it would bring down rents if benefit claiments had some extra money for finding a cheaper property.

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AndNowItsSeven · 19/10/2016 01:20

Single parents used to receive £40 a week for 12 months when they first found a job.

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everythingis · 18/10/2016 20:30

£1000 a month for a studio? I pay £750 a month for a 3 bed semi with a big garden a drive and a garage in a lovely desirable area (in Devon) with amazing schools. I think the hb shortfall would be about £100 a month if I was entitled based on LHA. I think folk in the south east have it very hard

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everythingis · 18/10/2016 20:27

I imagine it's true that some areas of the uk are easier to navigate on benefits or a low fixed income than others. I thought or read that the benefits cap was driving people out of london and other a spendy areas.

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graphista · 18/10/2016 20:21

Lol she doesn't think supporting the working is wrong but supporting the work shy!

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graphista · 18/10/2016 20:19

Definitely! My dad (total arse) bangs on about 'all the jobs in the papers' no clue! I once went through all the jobs I was being emailed by online agencies - over 100 only 1 was remotely doable for any of his 3 kids, he last went for a job 'interview' in 1969!!

My mum is much more aware of the reality, she worries for her 4 grandchildren, especially as one is not very academically able. She thinks there should be a very gradual decline in how much you receive in benefits for first 6 months in work, it makes it less scary, provides financial support, it would mean people could cover costs like deposits for childcare, season travel passes, new clothes for work etc. She absolutely agrees supporting the working is wrong as I think anyone reasonable would, but under the current system the poor and non working/min wage workers are being vilified but not being supported INTO being working contributory members of society! It's called the benefits trap for a reason once you're in it it's bloody hard to get out!

I live in a very high unemployment area, one of the highest in the country yet the nearest college that provides basic employment IT training is 18 miles away (we used to have it here but funding cuts, also in real terms 35 miles away as you can't get there by a direct route as first bus there not till 11am!)

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Livelovebehappy · 18/10/2016 20:17

I really don't think £1000 will get anywhere near half decent in London for rental. I have a friend who is a nurse in a London who pays £1400 to rent a one bed studio flat (with a lot of help from her parents), and trust me when I say the place isn't luxurious at all. Can't imagine what your friend is living in for £1000 per month.

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HelenaDove · 18/10/2016 20:00

Exactly graph They cant have it both ways. People need to be more careful about what they wish for.

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graphista · 18/10/2016 19:48

If you mean they lack foresight Helena I agree

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HelenaDove · 18/10/2016 19:33

(several provide caring support for family members)


Which im sure is something scaryclowns parents wont be expecting of her when the time comes as they are so keen on standing on their own two feet Hmm

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graphista · 18/10/2016 18:56

And that's all before you remind people that there's around 33% fewer jobs than there are people looking and that a lot of these jobs are zero hours contracts, short term contracts, less than 16 hours etc

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graphista · 18/10/2016 18:53

Fleur have you any experience of the current benefits system? I'm on esa, I am unable to work due to both physical disability and mh issues. My initial claims for esa and DLA were both summarily rejected before they even received the evidence from my drs. I had to appeal - a deeply unpleasant process. Just completing the forms takes 3-4 hours!

Every time there's a change in govt (local or national) there's a 'policy review' every single time that's happened in the 8 years I've been unable to work that's resulted in me receiving less money or worse a payment not being received at all - it can take months to sort, you're passed from pillar to post, notes are inaccurate or downright lies! You're spoken to as if you're thick scum! (I'm a graduate who worked from i was 16 full time until I became ill).

I know people on JSA. They are frequently told to apply for jobs they aren't qualified or experienced for (but there are no options for training offered), jobs they physically can't do due to family circumstances (several provide caring support for family members), or jobs that are so far away it would take hours of commuting that would eat up 50% plus of their GROSS salary!

If you're moving from being on benefits to in work you're supposed to get financial and emotional support - it doesn't happen! Usually what happens is all benefits aside from maybe tax credits (and that usually gets cocked up!) and child benefit are stopped, given the majority of wages are paid monthly what are families supposed to live on in the meantime? Shall I tell you what's happening? They end up dreading being made homeless cos they can't pay their rent (private landlords generally don't care why and to be fair it's not their problem) going to food banks to eat, turning off the heating when the kids aren't home, getting into debt with companies that are barely legal!

Make it tougher indeed!

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scaryclown · 18/10/2016 12:41

and my parents, daily mail readers, shake their heads,blame me for this, and tell me all about their two holidays a year on their final salary pensions oblivious to the fact that it wasnt them that set that up, it was the better economic conditions they had in their productive years. They wont even cook me a meal every now and then because they think.i 'need to learn how to stand on my own two feet' i'm still applying every week for new jobs, and even my counsellor won't believe me..because she retired with a payout and gets paid £35 per hour she also thinks its ny laziness, not the economy. its such a nasty world

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scaryclown · 18/10/2016 12:36

Startling foolishness on here. Its is mental to say that claimants don't want to work. The jobs narkets just doesn't reach people effectively.

i was unemployed for practically three years. I am now in employment that pays £300 less per month than basic living expenses.i am qualified, experienced, and generated huge incomes for businesses in the past, but applying for upwards of 250 jobs a week has only resulted in shit jobs .and now my 30 hour a week job (my employer, like most minimum wage employers rarely allows people to.work more than this).

I am happy to work much more than the average person, at a higher level, but the world of work just won't let me. It does, however, want me to work less than full time on less than living wage, in a job that is making me ill. That is what we have let happen in the last 6years.

The wages are so desperately low, now that even incinsistent dole is a far better economic decision enhanced dole eg disability benefit even more so. Dole is set at the absolute minimum you can live on...yet our big famous brand names treat their staff worse than this...how we expect to build and maintain an effective self-actualised workforce if we allow companies to bleed us dry like this. its astonishing we let this happen. people are trying to maintain families on less money from their employer than can keep a single person alive... and its getting worse. Food prices are increasing, inflation will go up soon -so debts will be more dangerous to hold..and we still allow tge asdas,tesco,morrisons, costa,starbucks,next, spirts direct, amazon ..the list is endless. .to follow a 'fuck the country' model of business. In the US the end game has been 10,000 people in some states queuing overnight for food stamps, violent hateful ghettos and extreme poverty without healthcare..so an unfit workforce. Guess which nation publishes the business textbooks most business schools follow?

The poverty culture we are creating by blaming the poor for accepting low wages, when we have businesses whose conditions we as a nation can control is crazy.

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