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To think there is no excuse to leave a baby in a hot car?

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FIS2016 · 08/06/2016 19:03

Especially when there are two adults available!
www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-stoke-staffordshire-36482405

I don't understand why anyone would think this is acceptable. Poor baby.

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bibbitybobbityyhat · 08/06/2016 22:03

Yes. As I said at 19:59.

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Scotinoz · 08/06/2016 22:14

Not leaving children in hot cars is a massive thing in Australia, and there's a pretty interesting You Tube video of Matt Moran (celeb chef) cooking a leg of lamb on the dashboard to prove the point. Nuts!

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YouAreMyRain · 08/06/2016 22:37

Yes bibbity, I read your post and agreed with you and summarised my similar thoughts.

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NeedACleverNN · 09/06/2016 07:44

Those links are awful Sad

I don't understand it though...how can you forget your own child in the back of the car?!

I don't drive so maybe I am more concious of my children being there..

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Buckinbronco · 09/06/2016 08:29

It's basically the same as leaving your baby at the shops though isn't it? It's not common and I don't expect most people understand it when they haven't experienced it but it happens to other people and they are not neglectful

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thrillhouse · 09/06/2016 08:35

Need I guess if you're so used to the daily routine, you're sleep deprived, it's hot... I can sort of see how it would happen.

I am really glad that my drop off at childcare routine is only two days a week. I keep bags in the boot and I leave the car at the childminder's rather than driving to work so I feel that helps. But even then I'd never say that it would never happen to me. You just don't know.

When DD was a couple of months old we went food shopping and I put her in her car seat to come home but didn't fasten the seat to the car. I realised halfway home and luckily nothing happened but if we had crashed I dread to think what could have been.

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thrillhouse · 09/06/2016 08:37

In fact I even get really worried if DD is even napping in the car. I never ever leave her alone, obviously, but I do just park up sometimes. I always open the windows though.

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Lilicat1013 · 09/06/2016 11:53

I have a tool on my key ring for breaking car windows so I would use that if I was concerned about a baby or pet locked in a hot car
www.amazon.co.uk/Resqme-Escape-Tool-Clip-Black/dp/B000IE0EZO/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1465469084&sr=8-1&keywords=res%20q%20me&tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-21
I would make reasonable attempts to try and contact the parents/owner and contact the police but is the child/animal was visibly suffering I would break the window and deal with the consequences later.
I don't have it on the off chance I come across a baby in a hot car, I got it in case of an accident (it has a seat belt cutting thing on). It is small enough to go on a keyring so my husband and I both have one on our keys.

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weeblueberry · 09/06/2016 12:04

My baby (4 months) was accidentally locked in the car when I was getting everything in the car after her second set of inoculations. I must have hit the lock button then closed the boot not realising the keys were still in the buggy where I'd chucked them in my sleepless haze.

I am a very cool, calm and collected person and properly freaked the hell out as soon as I realised I couldn't get to her. She was asleep but it was June and about 20 degrees. My phone was in the car as well - luckily I was at the doctors surgery and they had my partners contact information. Unluckily he was across town and about forty minutes away.

I properly panicked like I've never done in my life. The doctor's receptionist called the police and they were there in less than five minutes. She wasn't distressed so they asked what I wanted them to do. We called our breakdown cover people because they could have accessed the car without breaking a window but they said twenty minutes.

Obviously I got the police to break one of the front windows. They do it with a touch force hammer so it didn't explode all over the seat.

Even thinking about it now makes me shudder. It was probably about fifteen minutes from beginning to end and she was asleep the whole time until the car alarm went off but it was probably one of the longest fifteen minutes of my life as I watched her getting clammy, sweaty and hot.

The thought of someone intentionally doing this and not giving it a second thought makes my stomach lurch.

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bumblefeline · 09/06/2016 12:06

Poor baby :-(

It was absolutely roasting here in Stoke yesterday as well.

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