Lighthearted, but I do need tips...
Our next door neighbours are very nosy. When we moved in, the fence between our gardens was a 3ft high trellis. They're out gardening all the time, and we couldn't go into the garden without having a 15 minute chat about their roses, hip complaints, latest gnomes etc.
We decided to extend the fence to a 6ft trellis. We let them know and said we needed a higher fence for the plants we planned to plant. They said they were fine with it. It was our fence according to the deeds anyway. We bought the panels and stored them in the garage ready for a sunny weekend.
We came home from work one day to find the alarm going off and the neighbouring skulking about. They said that they'd noticed that the main door to the garage had been open (a lie - it was still deadlocked), so they'd climbed over the back fence to investigate and gone into the garage through the back door (we hadn't locked it, I know, I know). They hadn't realised that the garage had a motion sensor in it linked to the main house alarm.
We realised that they must have gone into the garage to look at the panels. Devious monkeys. Luckily it was Friday and we cracked straight on with the new fence the next morning. We didn't leave the house until it was done and they couldn't get into our back garden anymore.
Well. It turns out that dh and I are both really crap at gardening. The plants we planted haven't done as well as we'd planned.
It was really windy recently and the extended trellis fence has blown over! We've done a temporary fix but we're having it replaced properly by a company in 2 weeks. We're going to have a 6ft solid fence.
At last we'll be able to eat toast without the neighbours waving at us. No one will be able to comment on the fact that we sometimes hang out the washing the night before. Best of all, we'll now be able to choose when we talk to our neighbours. And they won't be able to reach through the trellis and pick our raspberries either. Again, cheeky monkeys.
My question is, how do I tell them that we've decided to have a solid fence? I don't want to offend them. I want them to think it'll benefit them.
We are friendly people by the way - we get on with all our neighbours, although these particular ones are notorious for their nosiness. They once had another neighbour's keys to pick up the post whole they were away. They were seen through the window (night time, lights on) going through desk drawers
Jeez I've rambled. Sorry. In the interests of neighbourly relations, how do I tell them that we're about to have a big tall fence blocking their view into our garden and kitchen, and make them think it's for their benefit?
AIBU?
Best way to tell the nosy neighbours that we're having a new fence, and their spying days are over?
NotAWhaleOmeletteInSight · 04/03/2016 23:49
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