How does it affect anyone other than the person themselves if they are fat? I'm not talking about those who are so large they have major problems and therefore use NHS resources. And I'm definitely not talking about people who are large because of illness, medication, or a body not working properly. I am referring merely to those who are overweight. Such as myself.
I am, by all the guidelines, around 6 stone overweight. My BMI puts me in the obese category. I'm a size 22 bottom and size 18-20 top. It makes me uncomfortable in the heat and I don't like to run, but other than that, my size affects absolutely nobody. I have no health issues; my blood pressure is fine, my asthma is as mild as it was when I was young and I don't have a dodgy ticker. I am currently trying to lose weight because I hate how I look, and I want to run around with my son.
All of us overweight people know what state our health is in, we know it's not good to be big, we are aware of the implications and, believe me, we are very aware of the general view of people who are not the 'ideal' size. We know how to lose weight and, believe me, we don't actually want to be fat.
But, to be quite frank, how the hell is it any of your damn business? Does it physically hurt you that I'm fat? Does it mentally hurt you that I'm fat? Apart from being unpleasant to look at (for some), my size and weight affects no-one and therefore isn't any one else's business. If you are really so affected by us fat people, then do something to help, instead of moaning and slagging us off.
That's not aimed at anyone in particular btw, just a general rant.