I am self employed and my work is seasonal. Some weeks I do maybe 16 hours but than I may not work for a month.
We have 3 dc. 2 primary aged and an active toddler. I do all night wakings.
Dh works long hours. He is out from maybe 6.30 to 7pm monday to friday. I do virtually all the childcare for dc including bedtime unless out. I also do all the housework. My work is therefore effectively 7 day a week as he only down the very bare minimum weekends too. I think he washed up once in 3 weekends. Dh does garden and diy but that is all. I cook for me and dc but dh wouldn't eat what I cook I do washing up and clean kitchen than do bedtime. Also most of the club runs
In the evening he gets home and flops on sofa. He will either get a takeaway or snack in the evening. He will than leave knives, wrappers, crumbs etc on worktop. He also rarely brings glass into kitchen at night. Crockery normally makes it to kitchen but that is all.
He hasn't complained that I don't cook for him but I think mil thinks I am lazy.
I have also seen threads on here that suggest a sahm should cook a meal for her dh and lets face it for may 30 to 35 weeks of the year I am effectively a sahm.
So mumsnet jury what do you think?
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so should I be cooking an evening meal for dh
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oxfordmumma1 · 22/07/2014 16:35
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