sonlypuppyfat, just a few points, I have worked in care, in research, in retail, and in 4 different countries, so plenty of real life! I chose teaching as a permanent career because I love young people, and I love my subject, and I was under the mistaken impression that it was compatible with family life. I started work today at 7am. Since then I have worked constantly until 2am, excepting one 15 minute break waiting for a meeting to start, 1 hour travelling home, and one hour cooking and eating with the family. I'm relaxing a bit now , then will sleep until 5.30, when the alarm goes off. Not a short day! it isn't always this heavy, it is like this mid April/May/ end of June, when I have approx 200 btec students trying to organise/complete/ improve/catch up on work for their Btec portfolios. Yes, this includes Easter holiday, and half term.
I love teaching. Unfortunately the conditions in which we are working are unreasonable to the point of being insane and inhumane.
I have just quickly added up in my mind the colleagues who have worked in my department with me over the last 3 years. 18 people, not one has survived the last three years with their career, health and family intact. Everyone who hasn't left teaching , or gone part time to concentrate on other work, has had long term physical or mental health problems, caused by teaching, or family breakdown, or both.
It is insane. I'm not saying it doesn't happen to anyone else, or we get it worst. Its insane whoever is put into a position like this, what ever their career.
The answer has to be legally enforceable limits to working hours, in what ever sphere you are in.