My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

AIBU?

AIBU to be confused when people say it's cheaper to cook from scratch?

613 replies

Blueskiesandcherrypies · 23/03/2014 19:16

(Sorry another 'weekly food shop post'....)

I just don't think it is! I struggle to get our weekly food shop below £140pw. That's for me, DH, ds9, dd7 and dd1 (and soon to be newborn ds). We all love our food, though I tear my hair out every week planning meals everyone will enjoy rather than refuse and sulk about tolerate, and cook from scratch (just things like spag Bol, curry, carbonara, puff pastry 'pizza', roasts...) but I often think blimey if I could just chuck a few ready meals in the trolley and loads of bits from the frozen section (burgers, nuggets, kievs!!) we'd be quids in! But then we wouldn't be eating so healthily and I wouldn't know exactly what we're all putting in our mouths.

Weekly food shop includes packed lunches, loads of fruit for snacks, cat food, household bits, nappies.... but not alcohol, that comes out of DH's 'own' pocket rather than our joint account even if it's wine for me. We never have leftovers so can't stretch a meal over 2 days (DCs have growing appetites).

I am green with envy when I see people saying they can feed a family of four for £50 a week! Just....how?!

And ok, before you ask, I have been shopping at ocado lately but I haven't seen a huge price diff than when I used sainsburys.

Please help me see where I'm going wrong!

OP posts:
Report
weebairn · 28/03/2014 08:07

We barely drink milk. Toddler has a cup every now and again, she also breastfeeds so it's not every day. I don't really eat cereal and have tea and coffee black. So maybe a pint a week semi skimmed for DP's drinks and we usually have a pint of full fat in for the toddler but I end up putting it in porridge for her half the time.

Report
weebairn · 28/03/2014 08:08

Breakfast here is always toast and eggs and fruit. Just cause I'm addicted to eggs (so DD is too now). We get through a lot of eggs...

Report
NearTheWindymill · 28/03/2014 08:16

I hope you achieve everything you set out to truffle but please don't get too enmeshed in a saving money and scrimping mentality. My MIL did that (she and FIL having come from very poor backgrounds indeed) and all her children remember being hungry and having second hand and walking rather than taking the bus in the rain to save their mum the money when it was so tight. When FIL died (and they were living in a house that hadn't been decorated for 40 years) it was discovered they had more than a million pounds in the bank. Their children just remember a fairly grim childhood. I'm not saying you would be that awful but it's a cautionary tale I think and one of the reasons why my DH likes a full fridge and never hesitates to write a cheque for a school trip, etc

Sorry a bit of message there.

But Bretgirl the milk. At our peak it was 21 pints. The DC are older teenagers now and we get through two Grin

Report
RandomPants · 28/03/2014 08:22

Brett we are at 17 pints of milk a week currently. 2 adults, a 3yo and a 7mo. DH eats his cereal at work too so it would be even more if he were at home for breakfast!

Report
MrsKoala · 28/03/2014 08:42

We go thru 8 pints brett, and we are 2 adults and 1 toddler - who doesn't drink milk. Confused

I could also start a thread asking how many loo rolls you go thru a day? Yes, you read right, A DAY!

We go thru 1 a day on average. More when dh was working from home Shock . The thing is I hardly use any. Confused

Report
brettgirl2 · 28/03/2014 08:52

I wouldn't want your bogroll bill Grin . I do put pulses into cooking already because I like them.

Glad to hear that there are others who rival our milk habit but seriously that's a good dent in a 50 quid per week shopping bill Confused . I feel Blush pushing the trolley though it looks like I'm running a canteen.

Report
MrsKoala · 28/03/2014 09:00

Yes bret Grin i am incredulous whenever i go into the lavvy. It's not just the bill tho. It's not having anywhere to store more than a 4 pack (tiny flat) and having to carry those expensive smaller packs from the shop every few days (don't drive). Also unblocking the constantly blocked bog Angry

Report
Beastofburden · 28/03/2014 09:29

Mrs K- What is he doing in there?? (I think we know....Grin)

Report
OnIlkleyMoorBahTwat · 28/03/2014 10:05

DP drink gallons of milk in his tea and coffee. There's just the two of us and I would say we have 12-16 pints of milk a week. I know it's him, because he works away quite a bit and when its just me, I use about a pint or two a week, unless I am baking or making cheese sauce.

We also use about 2 dozen eggs a week as we both have 2 a day for breakfast most days.

I don't think truffle's grocery bill is that tight. Its simply the case that if you cook from scratch and don't waste anything, you can eat really well for very little.

I'm always a little Confused when people talk about having 'meat free mondays' or 'going veggie one or two days per week', as to me, it is all just food.

I eat meat, but not just every meal. I can think of a hundred meals that I eat that have little or no meat in them. It's not deliberate and I don't think that a meal has to have meat in it or that a meal without meat is any less.

Things like:

Courgette or mushroom risotto
Scrambled eggs on toast
omelettes
cous cous with cheese and roast veg
Chillis or bolognaises with
Pasta bake with one tin of tuna between about 4 portions

People say that soup is not a meal, but I make one with loads of veg, beans and a small pack of bacon lardons and it is very filling - more a stew really. Lentil or chick pea dhals are filling. I also make a noodle soup with noodles, finely chopped veg and small amounts of chicken or prawns. You could use the leftover chicken trimmings, but apparently that's akin to a starvation diet on here.

Report
trufflehunterthebadger · 28/03/2014 10:06

I swear DH does origami with the loo roll. Once i marked the date when i changed the roll in the ensuite - it lasted 2 days. I could not believe it, it's only the two of us that use that loo (we're not as fancy as you windy, only 3 loos here :D) and in the daytime we use the downstairs loo.

We have been known to buy it in bulk from groupon but we have plenty of space

Report
trufflehunterthebadger · 28/03/2014 10:09

Sounds lovely ilkley.

As for starving, well ! I would be happy for any mner to drop in on our house for dinner one night and see that we aren't actually fainting with hunger. If i was i might lose some weight ;)

Report
MrsKoala · 28/03/2014 10:18

Well, he appears to have about 6-10 shits a day! Sorry

Report
trufflehunterthebadger · 28/03/2014 10:28

I don't buy kitchen roll for exactly the same reason, koala. DH uses it for cleaning the worktops - USE A CLOTH !!

Report
MinesAPintOfTea · 28/03/2014 13:10

I stumbled across this list of budget meals on the BBC food website this lunchtime whilst looking for a specific recipe. Might be of interest to anyone looking to cook to a budget.

The other thing I have to add is that somewhere upthread there was a discussion about the cost of cooking dried pulses. I minimise this by batch cooking: I'll make 2-4 times as much of a main dish as we need and freeze the rest. Barely costs more in power than cooking what we need that day and heats up fast when I need a lazy meal to which I just add rice/pasta/microwave jacket potato especially if I remember to get it out of the freezer in the morning

MrsK I think you need to put your DH in charge of loo roll shopping. That's just daft. Maybe a selection of face/cleaning cloths for christmas? Grin

Report
OldDaddy · 28/03/2014 13:44

I was following Jamie Oliver's speedy Pizza recipes - They were great and just under the stated budget when he then suggested I "take them out into the garden and bung them in a wood burning pizza oven". needless to say having one installed raised the price a little - Just over £749.23 per pizza. I was very disappointed and will not be cooking from scratch again.

Report
horsetowater · 28/03/2014 13:59

MrsKoala your DP sounds like he has 'dirty' issues. Get him some exposure therapy and some rubber gloves. Probably cheaper in the long run.

Report
merrymouse · 28/03/2014 14:28

Ha Ha Old Daddy. Gwyneth Paltrow has some budget chicken recipes on Goop this week - maybe you could try those next?

Report
horsetowater · 28/03/2014 15:34

£749.23 per pizza Grin

Report
CuddlesNKisses · 28/03/2014 17:02

MrsKoala - I share your anger! Not only does my DH waste half the toilet roll, but his whole family will waste a kitchen roll in one day. They'll use it to 'cover' up food on a plate - just use a damn plate or saucer for gods sake or put it in a plastic tub. They'll use it to wipe away water which a kitchen cloth can easily do. No sense!

Report
ZingSweetCoconut · 28/03/2014 17:06

Daddy

how many pizzas though?
not so bad on your own - it's the 8 of us here....

Grin

Report
FabBakerGirl · 28/03/2014 18:51

Thank you for all the tips on different meats.

Stupid question alert -

I would not buy the basic meat as I would worry about how good it was so how will I know if I am buying cheaper cuts that it is still good quality?

Report
AmberLeaf · 28/03/2014 19:02

What do you mean by good quality?

Do you mean ethically sourced and all that sort of thing?

Or do you mean, cooks well and tastes nice?

If it's the first, Im not sure exactly, but I think there is a general standard for meat sold in supermarkets, if it's the second, the proof is in the pudding or the stew

Report

Don’t want to miss threads like this?

Weekly

Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!

Log in to update your newsletter preferences.

You've subscribed!

FabBakerGirl · 28/03/2014 19:11

I mean as in not 10% meat in a sausage ( I am fine with these as have found 90% meat ones) but can't think how else to explain. The cheap chickens at £3 I wonder how good they really are. Are they full of water and tasting like nothing? Oh I can't think how to explain.

Report
AmberLeaf · 28/03/2014 19:22

I think I know what you mean Smile

Well, I have on the whole always bought meat on the cheaper end of the scale, 'good' meat ie expensive, is not unknown to me, so I do have some point of reference!

How meat is cooked/seasoned has more of a bearing on the taste outcome than price IMO/IME.

I am trying to think of a time where I have bought cheap meat that was disappointing and I can't really think of one. Actually, buying a basics beef mince, the fat content was higher than I like, but that kind can be ok if you are making a ragu.

All you can do is try.

Report
FabBakerGirl · 28/03/2014 19:27

I will try, thank you. For years I was buying the two for a fiver chickens without thinking anything and then I must have read on here that they can't have been good quality.

I find that the more ingredients I don't recognise on an item the less I will buy it and I think when there are so many fillers in a meat product I assume it isn't a good quality item. Am I wrong? I am fussy about what my children eat but don't want to be wasting money if a step down item is fine.

It is never cut and dried though. If I buy tinned custard it costs me 17p as it has less sugar in than the branded one.

Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.