I love/loathe this show in equal measure, along with ‘Four Weddings’ these are my trash shows.
I think it’s mostly made up (i.e. 90%). There’s a common theme throughout the majority of episodes – the bride is a nightmare, the groom is a selfish bell-end. In quite a few seasons I can’t recall a single episode where it’s been a normal run of the mill wedding; it’s all ramped up to the max for tv.
If I was going on the show I’d of got every major decision sorted long before, and my OH would need to simply turn up and ‘pretend’ to decide on everything. It’s almost as if the producers deliberately steer the groom into nothing that the bride actually likes, it’s all about capturing that the car crash tv moment where her face drops at being told xyz. I don’t believe after being with each other for years that the grooms would know so very little about their bride’s, it’s made up tosh designed to make you at home go ‘omg what a selfish prick’, it’ll make you stick and watch a lot more than someone doing everything right.
It’s always the same: the groom has a massive lavish stag doo, complete with limo and a dozen mates, whereas the hen has a crappy night out in the local ‘Yates’ or something equally as lame. You only ever see the bride being told the bad stuff throughout the night (i.e. money running out, the grooms stag is 10x bigger), and never having fun. I know blokes can often be thoughtless, but I simply don't believe the grooms are that brazenly selfish and downright nasty. It's all designed to make us sit at home and think 'LTB!!', considering the viewership the programme is aimed at, it's no surprise men are portrayed as cretins. Most blokes do well to come away with a 'borderline twat' editing job, but most end up coming away with a lot worse.
They're never specific enough on the costs of venues, it should be stated whether catering is included or not, as that can easily double/triple a budget.
The plane episode - I can't believe it actually got that far to the point she got on the plane, it was obvious the groom knew it wasn't going to work before he'd even got to the airfield. They both come away looking idiots after that episode. She was incredibly cold and rude, and seemed to imply very heavily she was leaving him soon as the camera's stopped and they had the money. It went from her spewing venom, to the next scene with her comforting him and saying they'll get on with the day. I reckon he went nuts off camera and smashed the archway up and she saw how much he was being forced into sticking with it, her tears during the ceremony seemed genuine enough. All that aside I can't believe they were 4+ hours late, that's madness. Also another thing that makes me not believe a word is that they managed to find a registrar last minute for the alternate venue, going by how my council works, there's no way they'd be so accommodating and helpful.
Wedding photographer episode - As if any self-employed wedding photographer getting free advertising on the BBC is going to turn round and say they think disposable cameras for each table is a great idea, talk about doing yourself out of the job. The decorations and everything else miraculously appeared too (same as every other episode).
It would make a change if the producers had a normal straightforward wedding episode. I'm seem to have gone on one they're, my apologies, I want TV to stop treating me like I have shit for brains!