It's been a long week for both of us. Long hours at work for him and me at home with dd1 (4) and dd2 (10 months).
DH rang earlier to say he's taking us out to dinner to our favourite Chinese restaurant which is in a huge shopping mall. I had an exchange to do for dd2's clothes and thought I'd get it sorted while we were there.
DH arrives home and we are all ready, we get to the restaurant in good spirits and DH comments on how we're going to have a nice fun evening after a long hard week. We eat and enjoy the meal. Then we walk into the shopping mall and i tell DH I'd like to do the exchange now to which he agrees.
We go to the shop and I start to look for some clothes I can exchange with and DH starts to look antsy but he's ok. I continue looking, and ask his opinion on a couple of outfits to which he gives helpful answers. I choose some clothes then say, I'm just going to take one last look on that side and then I'm done, and he gets really annoyed. He said, 'this is what you always do. This is what you did on holiday'. Then he sat there with a face on while I looked (for the whole of 2 minutes), and waited outside with dd1 while I did the exchange.
When I came out I was annoyed and he was in a big huff and we argued 
I'm really upset at how impatient he was being. I'd only been in the shop for a maximum of 20 minutes. I'm the one who usually does all the shopping and clothes buying and so what if he had to 'waste' 20 minutes of his precious time while I BOUGHT CLOTHES FOR OUR CHILD.
He said I always try to dominate every situation and that I ruined the plans, and we were supposed to be having family fun time. I asked him what plans and he said 'what's the fucking point in asking now'.
We drove home in silence (with dd1 chattering away to herself in the back) and have both come to bed without talking.
AIBU?
To be mad at DH for spoiling the evening?
TeaJunky · 28/09/2013 00:05
Take him! I'll be the one laughing when he throws a strop in a shop (that rhymes and you WILL end up in a shop one day ) and doesn't buy you an Ice cream muwahahahahaha 
Oh tea, you mistake me for someone that read the thread and was telling the truth about drinking your cheap wine . Sober and totally disappointed in how you fell so easily for Howard. I'm going to run off with your dh and he will never be dragged around a shop again...bahahaha!
And you pay someone to iron 
incapable of holding more than one thought at a time in my head at this time hence multiple posts. Dithering/faffing/forgetful me in full force
And gosh your kids don't cook for themselves either! I thought it was just me spoiling my 4 yr and 10 month old!
I can't believe we let it get to this 
Oh dear buzzard...all that cheap booze you've been guzzling at my free bar.
I chose the restaurant remember.
Classy bird me. 
Well today I have had a fuckload of entitlement ...DH gave me £100 as a gift to spend on whatever I fancied.
Moooooooooooooo
Might get some new nets for me ivory tower windows. Sparkly ones.
and wait to go choose them when we next go out for a meal
Harold did you not get the gold embossed members card???
Fucking postie! How dare he. He's a full time working moron that's what he is !
Let's be pissed, entitled, no-school-ru moos together
says she who is teetotal but has still handed out a shocking amount of alcohol in this thread
Hee hee, I wish might have a glass to celebrate no school run in the morning though so my posts might just get more obscure. Pass me the wine Op will yer?
Buzzard are you a little bit pissed on a Monday evening ?
Your wine is like your nights out OP, boring and missing the point
Haaaaaa saycool
Piss off then if you don't want me drinks! 
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