Obviously there's a massive back story but ill just attempt to give enough info to inform your opinion.
Ex has just been remanded in custody to await trial. He's in for smashing the window on my new single mum house and 4 other charges relating to incidents that night.
Dd is 19 mo and has been having soaridic contact (2hrs a week at a centre) since we split. I am absolutely certain that she enjoys seeing him as she always points the way when we get off the bus and has started to cry when it's time to go.
It has been suggested that I 'help' dd make a card for him and send it to him with a photo.
IF, IF, IF I were to do this my terms would be that someone else 'help' her with the card AND write on the envelope (because its bloody well not from me!) and I will see to it that a photo goes in and it gets posted.
This is basically what happened for Father's Day except I sent her to contact with it.
So please either flame me for not wanting to do it (because he will think its from me?) or give me something to defend my decision with.
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HerrenaHarridan · 10/09/2013 21:53
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