Gettingfit, the overeating thing: 100 calories a day equals a pound a week -just seems so unlikely to me. If that's true, how come people don't accidentally become skeletally thin? Like, whoops! I skipped breakfast every day for a year and now I have accidentally died of starvation!
I go through phases (when it's hot mainly) where I eat hardly anything, yet I don't lose weight.
I have never been overweight. I have a bit of podge on me but I'd have to put one smth like two stone to even reach 25 on the BMI thingo. I am the same size in my thirties as I was when I was fourteen -I still have some clothes from then and they fit fine. But what I eat has changed enormously over those years. I spent several years in my early twenties existing almost entirely on pizza and Snickers bars. Like, six bars a day, easy! I've eaten almost completely vegan when I was hanging out with a lot of vegans, just, all kinds of things, all kinds of ways of eating. These days I eat mostly low carb, as DH needs to eat low carb for medical reasons, but I also am eating a pain au chocolat and drinking cafe au lait as I type so it's not that low carb
. I don't do very much exercise - I've never gone to a gym in my life - but I have visible muscles. And my body shape, barring illness, is fairly consistent. A hundred calories - my diet changes by so much more than that. What I eat might change by a thousand calories from day to day, month to month.
And you know my mother was the same until menopause.
I just feel like this has to be genetically determined. I think it might be useful to look at why people don't get fat, as well as why they do. I get a lot of messages in the world that it's because I'm somehow more moral, more controlled, better than those fat people. But it's a con! It's not true! I'm not doing anything at all. I just came this way.