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AIBU?

to think Daisy Buchanan (The Great Gatsby) is one of the worst examples of a woman? (contains spoilers!)

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CartwrightMiss · 04/06/2013 21:23

Ok so it's only fiction and set in the 1920s.

But Daisy really has no redeeming qualities about her. How she could not pay her respects to Gatsby or at least acknowledge his death. Sure Gatsby himself was flawed but Daisy is a selfish and weak woman.

Aibu?

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limitedperiodonly · 07/06/2013 12:52

It's not preventing discussion to put spoiler in the title.

The Great Gatsby is Great Literature and quite old, but it is also a work of entertainment, and that entertainment is spoiled by telling people what happens in the end.

Yes, OP, Daisy is selfish and weak. I don't think it's a stretch of anyone's intellect to come to that conclusion.

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BookieMonster · 07/06/2013 12:43

Absolutely agree with Daemon
Is Pride and Prejudice also off limits in case we spoil the ending?!

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GrendelsMum · 07/06/2013 12:36

Apparently, readers, she married him.

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DaemonPantalaemon · 07/06/2013 12:26

I am sorry OliviaMMumsnet. You asking people to so some serious dumbing down. If some people have not "seen" the movie, they should not read the thread.

This is a classic book, an old book. It is not just a movie, there will be a thousand movie versions, but the book is a classic. and it is the height of the ridiculous to expect people not to discuss "spoilers" for a book that has been around for more than 70 years. It is deeply anti-intellectual to treat a classic work of art as nothing more than a Friday night moving starring Leonardo di Caprio.

I am really enjoying this thread, it is one of the better threads on Mumsnet recently, and it would be a shame for it to go the lowest common denominator route.

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Pfaffer · 07/06/2013 12:16

I didn't understand why Nick admired Gatsby so much. He was clearly a very controlling and obsessive person. Was it really as simple as 'he had nice stuff and could do a good party'?

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DaemonPantalaemon · 07/06/2013 12:08

Latara, I like you:)

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SlimePrincess · 05/06/2013 20:56

The beautiful little fool comment was what Zelda Fitzgerald actually said when she saw her baby for the first time,

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Latara · 05/06/2013 20:54

No i seriously never had heard of the Great Gatsby being a book before this thread; i honestly thought it might be an old film or play but i wasn't sure.

Now i can even pretend i've read it thanks to this thread hehehe!

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BOF · 05/06/2013 20:54

Old Yeller dies Sad

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AtYourCervix · 05/06/2013 20:51

And Bambi's mother gets shot.

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ITCouldBeWorse · 05/06/2013 20:51

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PacificDogwood · 05/06/2013 20:47

Bondage in 50 Shades Shock??

Grin

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AtYourCervix · 05/06/2013 20:42

Really?

That's like not mentioning everyone dying at the end of Romeo & Juliet.

Or Lizzy and Darcy getting it on.

Or the bondage in 50 shades.

Confused

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OliviaMMumsnet · 05/06/2013 20:20

Hello Know this is a well known classic but we've been asked to flag the spoliers for those who may not know the ending>
Thanks
MNHQ

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LaurieFairyCake · 05/06/2013 16:22

I thought the acting by Carey Mulligan/Leonardo de Caprio and er.... Spider-Man was amazing.

They brought real depth to the characters. I've not really been a big fan of Leonardos til he did The Reader ?(the one with Kate Winslet) - and I haven't see his 'Edgar' yet but I thought he was phenomenal as Gatsby.

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AphraBehn · 05/06/2013 16:13

Reveal Are you reading NA for an exam next Friday by any chance?

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LadyClariceCannockMonty · 05/06/2013 13:48

'She is a product of her upbringing and environment. The "beautiful little fool" comment is heartbreaking. That's all Women could be to survive in that world. Her false little world.'

I agree with this. She is meant to be a rather empty, shallow person and a bit of a cipher, because in her world that's what a woman was supposed to be. At least as long as she was also pretty and wealthy.

Gatsby is so easily seduced by surface beauty, wealth and its attendant power that of course he's seduced by her. But he's also shallow and lacking a moral compass, so he can't or won't see that she doesn't really care about much or have much to offer.

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RevealTheHiddenBeach · 05/06/2013 13:44

The beautiful fool comment has just struck me as extra interesting - I'm reading Austen at the moment, and in one of the books (northanger abbey I think?) there's a bit about how the best way for a woman to be is pretty and to know nothing, so that the 'man can shape her mind' - which then kind of puts Daisy in a different light for me. She's not a character I would look up to but I do feel a bit sorry for her. (this is based on the book - I haven't seen the film yet!)

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treas · 05/06/2013 13:31

My vote would go to Becky Sharp personally

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DevlinMaccabee · 05/06/2013 13:24

Yes, Old Sport, I agree that Daisy is not very nice at all.

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Remotecontrolduck · 05/06/2013 13:21

Agree hackmum, Daisy in the film wasn't as horrid as Daisy from the book. It at times felt as though she actually loved Gatsby, which sort of deafeated the whole point of her character.

I didn't like the film that much, there were some incredibly shot scenes but details like the presentation of Daisy and Tobey Maguire as Nick in the sanitarium didn't work for me at all.

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ovenchips · 05/06/2013 11:59

CartwrightMiss I mean Daisy is a wonderfully drawn character rather than an example of anything good. She isn't likeable but she is very interesting to read about.

The Great Gatsby IMHO is a perfect book. I was completely bowled over by the writing and it being so evocative yet without any extraneous words (it's v short book).

One of those books that you read and think you could never, ever, ever have written even a paragraph of and feel madly jealous about.

I've not seen the film and probably won't just in case it spoils it for me.

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DaemonPantalaemon · 05/06/2013 09:39

Latara,

Are you serious? You really did not know there is a famous American novel called 'The Great Gatsby'?


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Latara · 05/06/2013 09:23

Oh dear, i didn't even know it was actually a book!

Education-by-Mumsnet... i might bother to see the film now, it sounds more interesting than i'd thought it would be.

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hackmum · 05/06/2013 09:01

In the film, Carey Mulligan plays her quite sympathetically, so it comes as a shock at the end to realise she doesn't really care.

She is a very unlikeable character, though perhaps not as unlikeable as Tom. Obviously you're not supposed to like them, but it does make it a difficult book to engage with, in my view. It is one of those books that really divides opinion.

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