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AIBU?

To think that parents sound stupid when they use baby talk?

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Sallystyle · 04/03/2013 17:19

I was out walking my dog and a mother stopped me so her nursery age child could look at my "woo woo" "Look at the cutey woo woo"

It's a dog not a bloody cutey woo woo!

I admit that I might be more easily annoyed today because I have an infection in my gum and didn't sleep.

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quesadilla · 05/03/2013 10:12

YABU. None of your bloody business how people talk to their kids.

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pinkpudding · 05/03/2013 10:27

my friend makes her baby talk like a ventriloquist doll. in a very annoying cutesy voice. i hate it. especially when i get sucked into a discussion Smile

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Mrsrobertduvall · 05/03/2013 10:35

We still call fire engine nee naas and my dcs are doing gcses.
And baa lambs.

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Sallystyle · 05/03/2013 10:35

I have to laugh at it being none of my business. Of course it isn't, but since when has that stopped anyone being annoyed by something? Grin

It's not like I asked her to stop or told her my opinion.

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nokidshere · 05/03/2013 10:38

yabu - babies love baby goo goo stuff and young children love playing with silly words and sounds. It might have been a private little joke between them, or it might just be that she was feeling silly.. or any number of reasons.

Any speech to your child - correct or not - is a good thing.

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ReallyTired · 05/03/2013 10:42

Its one thing to speak to your baby in motherese, but a totally different thing when they are old enough to walk and talk themselves.

I worry more about the parents who don't talk to their children though.

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quesadilla · 05/03/2013 10:43

Fine. But it's hard to think of anything more private or harmless than the way people communicate with their kids. If you are going to post something so judgy on a topic this trivial you should be prepared that people may raise the off eyebrow.

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quesadilla · 05/03/2013 10:44

Odd eyebrow even

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Poppet48 · 05/03/2013 11:16

I have an 18 MO who often gets mistaken as a 3 YO.

YABU.

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Smudging · 05/03/2013 11:32

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 05/03/2013 12:09

I feel your pain, Smudging. Ds3 gets really narked if I call him my baby. But I don't see why I should stop, just because he is nearly 16! Grin

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maddening · 05/03/2013 12:29

I think it is meant to be something that we do naturally in response to babies - as they respond to higher pitch singy tones.

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KellyElly · 05/03/2013 12:54

I use lots of weird/babyish words for things to my 3 year old DD - PJ's - 'jimmy jamsters', knickers - 'knicky knacky noos', nappy - 'nap nap', milk 'milkies', bed time 'night night time'...the list is endless. She likes/uses those words and it's just our little language. I'm sure this won't be still going on when she's 10 but at three or four it's fine IMO.

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Fakebook · 05/03/2013 13:29

YAnBU. I do it in the vicinity of my home. I wouldn't dare do it outside my four walls, how embarrassing.

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LaQueen · 05/03/2013 14:54

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Dannilion · 05/03/2013 19:18

DM still calls windmills "yumm-bahs" when talking to me. I'm 23 Hmm

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 06/03/2013 11:13

The bottom line for me is that you do what works in your own family - you use words and tones of voice that the children respond to, and you use 'in jokes' too, and you shouldn't give a bugger if anyone else thinks you sound stupid - frankly it does them no harm, so why should they worry?

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