I've divorced and been with my partner for several months and I love him and his dss to bits.
However, he is terrible with money. He is separated and in the separation agreed to pay all his sons' school fees AND maintenance to his ex-wife.
After his rent and bills this leaves him with £600 a month. He is getting into debt every month to the tune of around another £1000 - a lot of which is spending on his boys - phones, trips etc. He has no savings and no capital.
AIBU to tell him that he can't live with me until he has come to an agreement with his wife about her maintenance/contributing towards school fees?
I don't want to have to subsidise him because of this. I want to trust him not to get into debt before I commit myself to being a part of his life in the longer term. My last partner was a fuckwit and I want a more secure future.
AIBU because I think he thinks that I am.....?
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to tell partner that he can't live with me unless ex-wife contributes to school fees?
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oldeposter · 08/01/2013 08:23
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