DC2 was born 5 weeks ago, since then I've been sleeping in his room.
DH started to let DD1 (age 4 1/2) sleep in our bed. Previous to this DD had no problems in staying in their own bed until morning and never came into our room at night unless she needed something important.
I would like my room back. I'd like to be able to go into my bedroom when I come to bed (have access to my wardrobe etc.) and stop camping out in the baby's room with regards to my clothes. I'd also like the option of getting into my own bed if I'm having a good night (when he's sleeping in the cot and not with me) or the baby is snuffling so much he's keeping me awake (I don't really want to turn this into a co sleeping argument but he can't be in our bed because DH smokes and he's huge and has to go into a bigger cot this week as the crib is getting small - hits his hands on the sides which wakes him up and there is hardly any floor space in our bedroom). I haven't yet had to wake DH in the middle of the night to ask for help (he helps in other ways) but I'm less likely to if I think it's going to wake DD.
DD is very upset that I have said I might be using my bed and I'd like her to sleep in her own bed, says she'll be lonely etc. DH feels the same and likes having her there.
He wanted to know whether this is a territorial thing for me and I suppose there is a bit of me that feels my freedom of choice has been taken away.
I also worry that the longer we let DD sleep in our room the harder it will be for her to readjust to sleeping alone which DH says is rubbish. He probably has a point.
AIBU and a bit uptight?
AIBU?
AIBU to want my bed space kept free?
SenoritaViva · 04/02/2012 20:39
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