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To consider giving to freecycle wanted ads until

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ThatWomanAgain · 19/08/2011 09:11

...I click on them and read the ends.

Wanted:TV needed



At least 32" and good condition, to be delivered to...





Wanted: Dining Table, urgent need






Wanted: Coffee Machine/ Deep Fat Frier/ Solid wood table



I'm a student and I need some living essentials

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Insomnia11 · 23/08/2011 15:09

I don't really care what people's real motives for having the stuff are. As long as they are polite and pick it up when they say they will, no problem. If I think it's something the charity shop could easily sell, I'd send it there instead.

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Insomnia11 · 23/08/2011 15:06

I don't really look at the wanted ads, have given away a cross trainer and a baby walker, no problems. They came to pick them up and both people sent a nice thank you e-mail afterwards.

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AmyStake · 23/08/2011 15:00

Shock Penguin! What an ungrateful shit.

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myfriendflicka · 23/08/2011 14:53

I have had some good experiences with Freecycle - but I was just offering things (stairgates, chest freezer and two Roman blinds). They all got taken by nice polite people and it was much more satisfying than taking them to the tip.

I haven't put any Wanted ads in yet thou...

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WillowFae · 23/08/2011 14:21

I joined my local Freecylce group a few years ago but was shocked at the content of some of the requests - pretty much what people have posted here.

I now just donate unwanted stuff to charity places.

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PenguindreamsofDraco · 23/08/2011 14:14

I freecycled a bed a few months ago. It was old but gorgeously comfy (and I described it as such). Had a few responses but one seemed nice and genuinely needy. Alas, 2 hours after it was collected he sent me an email saying it was not 'in gorgeous condition as described' so he'd taken it straight to the tip. I was Angry Angry - obviously he'd only been wanting to sell it on. Someone could have made real use of it - I felt like he got it under false pretences.

Obviously still v annoyed about it!

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mygirllollipop · 23/08/2011 13:58

When I first joined, I was offering a few itemss of baby stuff and got a response from someone saying she was expecting her first baby and could she come round to see what else I had WTF???
My local Freegle lets absurd wanted's through now so we can all see who the unreasonable people are.

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notcitrus · 23/08/2011 13:50

I gave away an oscilloscope a couple years ago! I think MrNC had acquired it from school 30 years ago - it was clearly from the 1950s!

I live in an urban area where people don't mostly have much money, and you can usually give away anything - out of date head lice lotion, bag of random toiletries, bag of random spices and other jars/packets of food, bunch of shells, whatever. Though I've noticed an increase in no-shows over the last year which is very annoying.
And some things you can't give away - analogue TV aerials for example, modems, pre-Pentium computers...

But I've got sympathy with the pregnant women being told that having a baby costs a fortune and there's loads of stuff you need but everyone argues about what that is - I picked up a few things that sounded useful and the lovely donors usually threw in a few extra bits, like a sippy cup or cutlery or vests. And in turn I've given loads away.

Sofas and beds seem hard to get rid of, actually - very hard to collect if you don't have a car, and people don't want to hire a van unless they've see the item. We did get a lovely sofabed off Freecycle after a few other people had failed to collect it - MrNC had to solemnly vow that he understood that it was up two flights of stairs and was heavy and would bring a strong friend, before being given the address. Now if anyone has solid wood chests of drawers they'd like to get rid of...

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lizardqueenie · 23/08/2011 13:00

dilys & solo ah I see. I just automatically thought it was someone taking the piss! Cynical me!

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EsmeWeatherwax · 23/08/2011 12:46

I offered a really nice leather sofa last week, and got so many time wasters it wasn't real. Eventually the actual person who collected it was also the most polite reply I got, and genuinely seemed to be in need. But the wanteds are outrageous. My favourite was someone wanting an icandy pram. Yes, I've just got 600 quids worth of pram lying about, do you want it delivered? :)

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Solo · 23/08/2011 12:27

I've offered to people who have placed wanted ads, but they still don't collect and that's after giving out my address!!! THAT angers me!

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redwineformethanks · 23/08/2011 11:17

I've offered various items. Although some of them went to a good home, I did get fed up with lots of people replying, asking quite a few questions and then not turning up to collect. Also, I did wonder if some people were just on the scrounge for things they thought they could sell on ebay etc

I've also posted a few requests for items and have been delighted when people replied to make an offer. Some of them said that they no longer offer goods, but are happy to give away something in response to a "wanted" request, as they know it will be taken.

I don't have a problem with people posting requests for what they would like. You can easily ignore the greedy ones. If the idea of Freegle is to avoid items going into landfill, then it doesn't necessarily matter if some people do all the giving and some do all the taking. I don't think it has to be reciprocal.

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DilysPrice · 23/08/2011 11:02

Freeview boxes are cheap and people get rid of them all the time, (eg when they get a new TV/DVR) so I don't think that's an unreasonable request

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babybarrister · 23/08/2011 10:48

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DilysPrice · 23/08/2011 10:40

Why wouldn't you put a half used box of oxo cubes on Freecycle? - it's exactly the sort of thing it's there for to prevent waste and keep usable items out of landfill.
Obviously you wouldn't travel a long distance to collect them, but if you happen to live nearby why not?

I put half a packet of Pull Ups on freecycle once - they were gathering dust, and they'd save someone a couple of quid.

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skgnome · 23/08/2011 10:19

I saw a wanted form someone that needed some items for a second room: bed, tv, sofa, etc... and then went on to saying: "will go to the tip at the end of the month, but you will help us in the short term" basically they were going to sub-let the room for a month and they wanted all the items to furnish, and yeah, we'll help you get money

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Solo · 23/08/2011 10:13

them*

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Solo · 23/08/2011 10:13

Well, maybe they've gone vegetarian and feel it's wasteful to just bin then lizard.

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lizardqueenie · 23/08/2011 10:05

Am enjoying this thread as DH were poking through freecycle the other evening to see if it would be worth putting on the sofa's we were getting rid of but needed them gone rather sharpish as we had nowhere to store them.. Love the idea of freecycle & reckon we have a lot of stuff we could put on there to help others out but was slightly :-0 at the lists of people's very specific requirements AND some of the offers. I kid you not someone was offering some half used boxes box of oxo cubes- lamb, beef and chicken flavour! Wtf?? Hmm

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Mercedes519 · 23/08/2011 10:05

I once saw a 'wanted' for an oscilloscope. And then actually saw that they had received one!!! I just imagined someone thinking oh yes, I have one of those in my shed. Have no idea what it is....

I use Freegle but only to offer stuff and will always give preference to people that use punctuation and manners . I've always expected people to collect and have had people who appear genuinely in need and grateful for it. That said as I use eBay I only Freegle stuff that doesn't have a lot of commercial value. Gives a warm and fuzzy feeling.

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Solo · 23/08/2011 10:01

I've just this minute given 2 moses baskets and 2 changing bags away and I so hope they aren't selling them on. It's taken a huge amount of strength to let them go :(

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HarrietJones · 23/08/2011 09:54

Mancgirl- canoes common on ours. I tried a couple of times & missed them.

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melpomene · 23/08/2011 09:42

A while ago I put up an ad on Freecycle offering a joystick (for computer games). The person I offered it to lived about 5 minutes' walk from us, and the item was so small and light that it could easily be carried in one hand. He expected me to deliver it. When I said he'd have to collect I never heard from him again.

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LoveBeingAtHomeOnMyOwn · 23/08/2011 09:24

How about this one......


My sister is expecting her first child and is looking for any baby items that
wil be of use:

Nursery cot / furniture
Cot sheets, nursery bedding/curtains
baby rocker
bottle warmer
baby bath
bibs
clothes
toys
baby monitor

Anything else that you may know of that would come is handy! Thank you so much.


So basically everything plus anything we've not thought of Confused

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StrandedBear · 23/08/2011 09:23

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