To really dislike the term 'MILF'

[BimboNo5]

I dont know why it just makes me cringe

[lazarusb]

My ds's friend referred to me as a MILF repeatedly on FB - I don't use FB but my ds does and was FURIOUS!- there is no way on Earth I'd ever go there but apparently he has felt like that ofr years Poor lad. I didn't take it as a compliment

[springydaffs]

From what I gather mumnotmachine, it's said by a younger lad of a woman in her 30/40's

ahem, excuse me, but it doesn't stop at 40 ime thank you very much

back on topic: it's not meant to be insulting but a compliment, a leery one at that. It's the equivalent of a wolf-whistle imo and when you're beyond 40 it's flattering to know you've still got it, even though you do't let on.

[AnyFucker]

hellooooo SIS/LEM

haven't seen you in yonks

[tigercametotea]

I don't like it. Objectifies the person they are referring to as a sex object.

[SunshineisSorry]

jumps up and down waving frantically at anyfucker - LEM here, i cant seem to be able to change my name back

[WhoAteMySnickers]

I don't like it.

A few of the guys I work with spent the days after the royal wedding referring to Pippa Middleton as a BILF, they found this extremely funny.

[fluffles]

it's a teenage boy / mrs robinson thing... used by boys around 15/16 to refer to women old enough to be their own mother or their freinds' mothers (so around 35yo).

i would never use it because i'm not a 16yo boy. i am 35 and i am not in any way interested in whether or not 16yo boys would ILF me or not.

[AnyFucker]

I agree with belle

Women who see it as a compliment need to examine their self-esteem very carefully

Also anybody who quotes "American Pie" as some sort of social commentary

[Mollydollydoll]

I never knew what it was til a few years back. What a horrible term
made up by horrible pervy men.

[SunshineisSorry]

Its vile, take a look at any porn site, there are whole categories dedicated to teenage boys shagging their friends mothers - sick. And i actually quite enjoy porn but this makes me want to throw up

[Jaspants]

YANBU - horrid term

[Mandyneil76]

MILF is a term that's grown on me gradually...depends who's saying it TBH, but if it's meant as a compliment, and its from someone young and hot, who am i to object?

[SnuffleTurtle153]

When I was pregnant I really wanted to call our DS Wilf. DH told me that's a name for a sexy wizard.

I don't know if he made this up because he didn't like the name or if there is in fact a WILF contingent out there, but it put me right off!

[nijinsky]

I really began to dislike it when an ex boyfriend, now married and father of two, referred to me as it in a misguided notion that I would find it complimentary and have an affair with him. I haven't even had children yet.

Its a bit like "bint", which is an Arabic term I think but used in a similar derogatory sense which is somehow meant to be complimentary (if you're desperate).

[onebigchocolatemess]

what is dragon butter? Am too scared to google....

[BelleDameSansMerci]

Shakirasma - each to their own. I am a little tired of it, personally.

[southofthethames]

YANBU

[Primalscream]

Hmm - some women have zero dignity

[BimboNo5]

An acquaintance of mine on facebook calls herself and her friend 'milfs' and posts things like 'the milfs are out again tonight'

[LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726]

Do some women feel 'proud' of being called it though?

It just sounds really grubby, somehow, to me anyway.

[lou33]

I hate it. And i also hate the term cougar.

[Cocoflower]

Yes I remember the scence! At the party they were looking at her photo and drooling and hence was born the MILF.

(Though I never did quite get what was so gorgoeus about her....!)

[TidyDancer]

Yes, coco, that's where I remember it from. Stifler's mum was the original MILF. I don't use the term, but I don't think it's really that bad.

[Ooopsadaisy]

I am reliably informed that I have been referred to as a MILF.

I am able to laugh it off but can understand why someone would be offended by it.

I suppose I wouldn't have been told, if I was the sort of person to be offended by it though.

[LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726]

It is tacky and I've always thought it was said by men who didn't have that many options really...