I am a gambler. I am single with 2 DC. I have gambled huge amounts of my money away in the past. I felt so sick at what I'd done, that I cancelled all my bank cards, and for a while, I have not gambled. I managed to save for the first time in my life.
I went from owing the bank left right and centre, not even having enough money for food, bank charges every way I turned, to having over £1100 in savings.
I was doing fine. In fact, I wasn't even thinking of gambling. It did not cross my mind.
I was sent a new bank card on Saturday. The last time I got a new card, I registered my card details immediately and gambled.
I have spent this weekend gambling away my savings on an online bingo site.
I feel sick and ashamed. I actually won £3.5K and then spent all evening putting it back, as if I was in a trance of some sort.
I have let my DC down, they don't know, but I do, and that makes me feel like shit.
I have to put enough money in the bank tomorrow to cover what I have spent to be able to have enough to pay my direct debits. (I have 2 different bank accounts with 2 different banks and need to transfer funds into the account I have gambled from IYSWIM)
I feel awful, I want to be sick. My stomach is churning!!
I have spent the last year paying off debts and putting money away, and now I have done this.
I will have to go to the bank tomorrow and get the money transferred to prevent any further problems arising from not being able to pay my direct debits, and I am so ashamed, I want to cry. If I have to withdraw the last of my savings and walk to the other bank to deposit the money, instead of doing a fast bank transfer at the savings account bank, well I don't think I can face the bank teller, but I know I must.
Fortunately, I have just enough to transfer into the direct debit bank account to be able to pay for the things I need to buy, shopping, bills etc, but I have wiped my savings out from my savings account by transferring it over.
I am a fool, words cannot describe how foolish I am.
My DC deserve better.
So, how do I face the bank to deposit the money I need to deposit knowing they will be looking and judging me if I can't transfer it and avoid facing them?
I am almost too frightened to return to this thread, because I know you will all give me a jolly good telling off, it is no more than I deserve.
I fucking hate myself right now.
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wanttostop · 08/05/2011 12:01
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