Hello All,
Anyone face the frustration of getting people to take your child's allergies seriously if exposure doesn't tend to result in anaphylaxis? Recently, my son faced 7 exposures in one term. I got so angry. Another child with a nut allergy has never faced such exposures from this particular place. Most people don't voice that they don't take non-anaphylactic allergies seriously but some have been bold enough to state that. My view is, if it makes the child sick in any way, shape, or form, it matters. End of.
Yesterday we saw my son's paediatrician again and he's requested that all egg be removed from my son's diet because his gastric system's functioning is still not improving. We have managed the egg ladder up to pancakes. It's taken 7 years to get to this point. He still cannot have any gluten (removed at approximately 1y.o) nor dairy (removed at 4m.o including my breast milk 😢). Soya he can have in moderation because it now tends to cause more fluctuance than pain, rashes, vomiting and other. So, my son can decide for himself if he is willing to face the effects and consider his surroundings.
Anyway, I digress. The Paediatrician was absolutely horrified about how people treat my son's non-anaphylactic allergies and pointed out that people, like celiac, can face slow and painful deaths at the hands of gluten if exposed over long periods of time. He raved, as I often have, that just because others cannot see the reactions doesn't mean they aren't there. I realised at this point that my frustrations are valid and whilst others like to treat my concerns over my son's health as an annoyance, his allergies are important to consider and adhere to without discrimination.
For a long time, I have avoided going out because of the reactions we get about my son's allergies. Frankly, after speaking to the paediatrician yesterday I realise that this is so not fair on my son. Why should he not be treated normally and experience normal outings because of other people's ignorance. Wherever you go, you can usually find vegan alternatives so why not allergies? You should see the smile on his face when, on VERY rare occasions chefs come out to make him an allergy appropriate kids meal. I mean, he is a kid after all so why not treat him as one and allow him a child's meal with the usually accompanying toy, desert or drink? He loves it and always wants to go back to that place because of how they made him feel.
I digress again! Does anyone else find if difficult to express the importance of respecting non-anaphylactic allergies to the world? Restaurants, childcare, schools, you name it. Any advice on quick analogies or sentences that can help express their importance while being presented with allergy folders and rolled eyes when placing an order, or being sighed at when expressing your upset over your child being exposed again.
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Allergies and intolerances
If they aren't anaphylactic it doesn't count
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MoederBok123 · 01/07/2022 12:30
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