I'm on Day 50 AF and steaming towards beating DH's longest sober streak of 78 days. To be honest, I am not expecting to drink again, or possibly very rarely, for the foreseeable future. Life is so much simpler without all the negotiating for one thing.
I think I'm doing all right, but other people seem to be struggling. The first 31 days, DH and I did together, but he doesn't seem to be able to get his head round the fact that I am still not drinking. Every time he buys me a drink, he double checks that I want AF and then looks disappointed. He put me under a lot of pressure to have a drink on our wedding anniversary.
Friends have gone from humouring us both for planning to have a month off (and not thinking we would make it) to being incredulous and frankly confused, that I am still sober after seven weeks. It's almost as if I am the one that is out of step. My drinking buddy, who has been a friend for nearly 20 years, has dropped me flat.
Have other people found the same? What tactics did you use to handle this?
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DeedIDo · 19/06/2022 17:39
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