I'm late 30s, single, and I am thinking of going down the adoption route.
I have no contact with any of my family. I'm NC with my parents (abusive), no siblings, and all other family members - aunts, uncles etc have sided with my parents and no longer talk to me. I'm not particularly fussed about this. I'm better off without them.
Would it be fair though to consider adopting a child when they would have nobody other than me? No grannies, grandads, cousins etc. It would be a very quiet life. This suits me fine but would it be cruel to bring a child up like that?
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Is it fair to consider adoption when I have no family connections myself?
PollyPrincess · 06/02/2024 09:33
Jigglypufff · 06/02/2024 11:29
Do you have a supportive circle of friends? I ask because we were questioned about our support network and robust it was.
Some adopted children can’t be in childcare so as a single adopter I would think about my flexibility with that in mind.
I’m sure some other single parent adopters with lots of experience will be along to advise more in depth.
I really benefit mentally and practically from having a strong support network for me to rely on- even if that’s just me having a space to vent my frustrations out with no judgement.
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