Hello. I've been considering adoption for a few years, have posted on here before under a different name and everyone was very nice and helpful.
I'm 43 now. About a year ago I went along to an open evening at my LA and spoke to a social worker. When she heard I was planning to move house she said it would be better to wait until I'd moved before starting the process which I understood. So I kind of put adoption thoughts on the back burner, moved in October and am now feeling settled in my new house.
I'm wondering if it's getting to be too late to start the process as a single adopter, especially as I would ideally love to adopt a 2-4 year old.
I also think that maybe if I was really motivated to adopt I wouldn't have basically wasted a year and would have moved house quicker, got back in touch with the LA late last year etc. But that's just me, I take a long time to mull things over!
I'd be interested to hear anyone's experiences as a single adopter in your mid 40s. Thank you so much!
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How old is too old to start the adoption process?
JeanTangerine · 16/01/2024 18:08
Jobionekenobi · 18/01/2024 11:30
I was 42 and husband was 43. dd was 3 when she came home to us. However, one thing I will say is that I'm probably more tired and less fit than a younger parent!
Jellycatspyjamas · 05/02/2024 11:23
Though in addition to it being more tiring with a toddler in your 40's don't underestimate the unholy convergance of menopause and teenage years! But we have survived... so far
I’m living this special kind of hell just now. Menopause and teenage girl hormones are quite the combination.
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