This is a long one sorry. My son came home 16 months ago following a lot of moves between birth family members and foster carers. He's just turned 5 and started reception in September at the school I work in. He's had several bouts of dysregulation in that time but yesterday I was called up to the deputy head/senco's office to be told he'd hit a teacher during dinnertime with a knife (a butter knife, but still a knife) and he'd been really dysregulated afterwards so he personally took him for a walk. During this walk F was using a really deep growly voice, which he doesn't really do at home, and was then taken to the nurture room where he eventually calmed down and was playing nicely with the D.Hd/senco and then a TA. The teacher had said she had asked him to stop screaming, which is when he hit her with the knife but when I wondered with him later he said she'd tried taking his tray away and he hadn't finished his food. Obviously, I didn't witness it so don't know which version is true or if it was a combination of both things happening but this can't happen again. His reaction a tot home to things not going his way is to hit out with the thing closest to him, so I'm hoping it was this and not purposely choosing the knife, he knows knives are sharp and they hurt. They know he's adopted and I gave them information on him before he started but I didn't give full history. Should I? We've got parents evening the first day back after half term and the senco has already spoken to the ed psych and waiting for the reports back before we all have a meeting.
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Nel81 · 28/10/2023 10:55
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