I didn’t want the title to be too long but it is me that’s not coping.
Our boy has been home 2 years and started school this month. He is very shy and it’s not been a smooth transition for him. We moved house at the beginning of summer and the new school is all new people who he doesn’t know. He’s a bit overwhelmed with all the class, can’t remember names, keeps saying he doesn’t want to go to school. This is after a pretty solid year of 4 days a week at nursery.
Most nights, I cry. I don’t know if it’s trying so hard to help him regulate, talk about his feelings and come up with little strategies or whether I’m just kind of grieving the loss of the littleness? I feel like everything has changed and that was my ‘being a Mum of a little one’ gone. Like now he’s at school every day. Now we don’t get our little mid week days together.
im sorry for rambling into the void but I want this feeling to stop and I don’t know how or if this is normal or if I’m just crazy. It just feels so very heavy at the moment!
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Noimaginationforaun · 18/09/2023 20:15
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